My question(s): Have you ever been in a serious relationship with someone you had (originally) met online? What tips would you give for making one work?
My story (Note: You don’t have to read this, its kinda long,lol) : I’m 15, my girlfriend is 13 & 1/2. We’ve been going out since June 3rd 2009. I met her on an online game about 6 months ago. Ever since I met her I’ve been crazy about her. She’s funny, VERY pretty, sweet. And I know she’s not some old pervert – I’ve seen her on webcam before . She’s not comfortable with dating guys in real life… She really likes me, and I really like her. But the sad thing is we’ll probably never meet as we’re young and she lives 720 miles away and if we ever do, it will be like WAY in the future! It really depresses me because I love her so much and she’s so beautiful and unique… Although I feel I’m not being fair to her because she’s in public school where she lives and she says she gets asked out by guys alot. She says she tells them no because she loves me. although again. I’m home schooled, and thus I have no real life friends. I would normally never date online like this for obvious reasons but I’ve grown so close to her so fast. She’s anything I could ever dream for. I’m just trying to find a way to better make this relationship work. Something to make us feel closer (in distance). I don’t have a cell phone (strict parents) so I can’t call her. I feel like if I ask her to go on cam I’m bothering her cause she most likely doesn’t want to most of the time … I really trust her, and I really love her. I really want it to work. But IM conversations are getting boring…we’re BOTH running out of things to say! I don’t want to let her go. How can I keep from losing her, I really don’t want us drifting apart/losing interest in eachother because we really have something. She’s my dream girl 
Advice please!
Thx,
Jason
I’m almost 18 (I’m about to graduate from HS, and can drive), he’s almost 20 (didnt’ graduate, but working on it, can’t drive). He’s always been nice to me. My mother saw on another site where our avatars were hugging. Do you think she’s wrong for taking me off? She says I should have nothing to do with online dating, etc. She’s errased everything I’ve done, and cancelled all my web sites, changed passwords, written into the places you name it, she did everything to get me erased and I’m not able to use that, what do you think?
Is it because your depserate to find someone?
back in Jan from my job a week after meeting and he ofter me a job for his company and I took it reporting to his brother not him so no conflict of interest. We have been on a several dates and he been so kind and nice. Being that I was laid off some of my bills have fallen behind so he has been paying some of my bills said that he does not want me to ruin my credit. He respect that we need to wait to have sex. He also said that he is so attractive to me but he is not ready for a relationship but he really likes me. I wanted to know what does that mean. I have a son who I will not let him meet till I know if this is real. I just want to know if I should make this professional and move on or should I wait till he is ready. I really like a lot he is the first person I think of when i wake up and what ever I do. And does he really like me like he says he does.
What kind of tips would you have for me given these circumstances. You think I should give up?
1. I’m in my last year of college (haven’t met any interests or guys interested there in school)
2. Is reserved and kind of quiet
3. Do not have that many friends. Not much of a social life at all.
4. Has never dated or been in a relationship. 100% inexperienced.
5. Has gone to couseling to resolve social anxiety and shyness issues.
6. Is worried I will never find anyone, or go through the fun experimental phase.
7. Let’s say online dating or matchmaking sites are NOT an option. NOT preferred.
Any tips or advice? Thanks!
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