How Do You Keep Him Interested?

I met this guy thought online dating site. he seems very interesting..and nice so far..
SO.. he gave me his number to txt him..but i still havn’t..anyway, it has only been 2 days..!
I always seem to mess up with guys..so can you give me some tips simply on how to keep him interested…
Thanks!

Continue reading How Do You Keep Him Interested?

3 comments   Advice   ,  

What Should I Type If I C A Girl I’m Interested In On An Online Dating Site?

I’ve never asked a girl out before but I want to try dating. So I went to the highest rated online dating site www.okcupid.com and answered a bunch of questions and it matched me perfectly with 2 girls. I decided to message one of them but I hit the same problem I have when trying to date in real life. I have no experience talking to women. Well I can talk to them as a coworker or as a friend but I don’t even have a vague idea about what to say to them as like a first line. I’m 23 and have absolutely no dating experience whatsoever. I wish I had asked this question before I posted my first message (And indecently the first advance on the opposite sex since middle school) but here is what I sent her:
I’m kind of new to this whole online matching thing but I noticed we have a lot in common. And the things we didn’t have in common were things I wish we did. (i wish I knew Japanese) So you know massage me back and we can talk or something.
P.S. Sorry if the message is lame. Its the first time I’ve been on a site like this so I really didn’t know what to say. lol
I need to know SPECIFICALLY what is write or wrong with this message. Also can someone give me an example of a good first message. None of that “be yourself” crap. I know that already. I just have no idea what I should type to a person the first time.
Plz be specific if you can.

4 comments   online dating   , , , , , , ,  

I’m Really Interested In Starting An Online Dating Site Or Adult Networking Site And Have A Few Questions?

About how much should it cost? How should I go about starting this? Any tips? And finally do you have any helpful links? I have tried to google this question for information but all I get is advice on how to find the right online dating site for me. If you could answer any of these questions I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks!

7 comments   Advice   , , , , , , , ,  

I’m Interested In Starting An Online Dating Site Or Adult Networking Site And Have A Few Questions?

About how much should it cost? How should I go about starting this? Any tips? And finally do you have any helpful links? I have tried to google this question for information but all I get is advice on how to find the right online dating site for me. If you could answer any of these questions I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks!

9 comments   Advice   , , , , , , , ,  

Is She Really Not Interested In Me Or Is She Just Scared She Might Get Hurt?

I met this girl online a few months ago and we clicked from the start. She’s lesbian, I’m bi. We communicate through text, calls and messages online and have met in person a couple times. In the time since we first met, she ended it with an ex, had a rebound, ended that, and has finally decided to move on from the first ex. Now she’s single and “dating.” I waited a bit because I didn’t want to smother her during a vulnerable time, but a few days ago finally told her I like her and want to date her. This was her response:
“its like.. i don’t even know what to say anymore. i like you as a friend, yes. there could have possibly been something more at one point.. but the more i thought about it the more i realized i didnt want to put myself in that situation. you don’t know what it is you want, you’ve said that countless times. i’m just not interested in being that person. there’s nothing wrong with you as a person, and it may not seem fair but i just don’t want to be your first. i don’t want to upset you and i want to continue talking to you. i want to be your friend.. maybe even find someone for you. at first i just really feel like you should date plenty of people, see whats out there. see what it is you want.”
I never said I don’t know what I want in regards to relationships, just that I’m confused with my future as far as jobs and where I plan on settling is concerned. She’s 25 and settled into her job situation and I’m 23 and have yet to start. The above message then turned into her saying she was never interested in dating me and I’ve only been considered a “friend” through all of this, even though she did say she liked me at one point.
Anyway, do you think she’s scared of me hurting her because I have no experience? Or is she generally just not interested in dating me and that was her nice way of letting me down? And how do I take from this experience and move on since it seems to be impossible to date her now? If every girl I encounter decides they can’t date me because I lack experience, I’ll never date. Somebody has to give me a chance somewhere and I refuse to sleep around for sleeping around’s sake!

4 comments   Lesbian Dating   , , , , ,  

Is This Guy Shy Or Is He Just Not Interested????????

Ok I am a plus size African American and he is Indian doc raised in the US and is a Christian, We met online. We have been on two dates and I’m not sure if he’s interested in me romantically or not. He seems shy and somewhat fidgety around me and goodbyes is always awkward for us. Its almost like neither one of us knows what to do. He is very attractive and a very nice guy, normally I’m this “life of the party” type of woman but around him I’m nervous as well because I don’t know what he’s thinking. Ive been reading past questions and know that interracial dating is really not accepted in their culture and it is shying me away due to the fact that I can’t take another heartbreak. So do I take a chance? Leave it alone? Should I ask him what the deal is or roll with the punches? I haven’t dated anyone in 9 years due to the fact that I was married so it is really hard for me to read this man.

3 comments   Christian Dating   , ,