Don’t Know How To Treat My Ex … It’s A Roller Coaster.

Been divorced for 6 years. I have 3 beautiful children. It took us ( my ex and I) this long to finally have a good relationship. We have put the past aside for our sake and the kids sake, so we get along fine. However, he knows that I still care for him and he gives me mixed signals. I confronted him about his attitude and he said that he was confused that he didn’t know what he wanted. He didn’t want me but he did. I came to find out that he is in several online dating websites and a professional dating service… yet, he spends more time hanging out in my house than when we used to be married. He doesn’t make any “moves” or anything yet he is super nice. Do I give him the cold shoulder? Do I start seriously dating?? I’m so baffled at this.

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He Asked Me To Marry Him Before A First Date… It’s Not That Uncommon For Muslims, Is It?

I have met the most wonderful guy online. Crazy thing is I was bored and just looking for someone, anyone to chat with. He IM’ed me from the chatroom we were both in. We chatted for a few hours that first day and have spent hours each night on the phone since we met.
He’s on a visa that expires in 4.5 months. Last night he said that he plans to extend it. He also has no plans to return to the Middle East to live– just visit. He ran into some personal problems and moved to another state where he has family (we lived in the same state when we met online).
Last night he asked if we still like each other in the future would I be willing to marry him… I do like him alot and pretty much said yes.
The odd thing is he moved before we got a chance to meet face to face. I’ve lived in America my whole life and have only gone out with Christian, American guys. Today I realized I was essentially proposed to last night, but never went on a date or even seen him in person (I saw him on a webcam the 1st night we met).
I did a little research and discovered that Muslim men don’t date. I’m still trying to recover from that shock… He has been teaching me a little about Islam. I assumed at some point the guy and girl would date and get to know each other, but I’m seeing they don’t.
What’s more is if we do marry I fear telling my extended family that our wedding will pretty much be our first date…well, not first date, but just about. I’d like to go visit him once he gets settled in. My mom is the only person I’ve told about him. Most of my family lives out of state.
Am I correct that we prolly won’t date before we get married… if we are to marry?

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It’s A Week Since We Last Spoke, I’m Gonna Call His Roommie, What Time?

My boyfriend and I met online. We dated just under 2 weeks when he gave me his credit card to buy a ticket to go meet him in person. On our 2 month anniversary we had our 1st date. Things went very well for the 3 days we were in the same city. (I had my own hotel room.)
I returned home and things got a bit rocky. He’s Muslim, I’m Christian. He told his uncle that I had visited. I wasn’t able to visit his uncle (last minute out-of-state meeting). His uncle went ballistic. At first it was ok that we liked each other. He became furious because we’re getting serious.
He works ALOT and because he neglected his health and sleep, he got sick. My bf is also a mama’s boy. She’s sick and he’s worried about her. She’s back in their home country. He’s got a lot of pressure on him and needed some time to sort through his issues/ problems.
We never go more than 2 days without talking. I’m worried about him.
I have his roommates phone number and have been tempted to call him. Today’s the day I’ve decided to call.
What time should I call? It’s 9:05am. I don’t wanna call too early or too late…
What’s the ideal time to call? Oh, his roommate also has a job.

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