Men – I’ve Been Out Of The Dating Scene For A While… What Do You Think Of This? (ladies You Can Answer Too!)

Hi guys –
I have been out of the dating scene for a while due to a long relationship. Now, I’m back in and met this wonderful guy. He and I met in person (we’ve talked online for nearly 2 years) on Saturday night at a local nightclub. He acted very into me. He held my hand, danced with me, told me I was beautiful, and even kissed me. We were inseperable all night. At the end of the night he said he’d call me soon.
The next day he texts me and initiates conversation on MSN, the day after he messaged me on Facebook, and then yesterday he finally asked me to hang out again on Friday. Now, my question is… since I have been out of the dating scene for so long, how do I know what he’s after? I am hanging out with him in hopes of a relationship blossoming but I have no idea what his intentions are. Are there any signs you men give us women when you are really into us? Any other first date tips for me? I want to WOW him without messing this up!!!
Thanks a lot!

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I’ve Been Rejected Twice In A Row By Two Guys From Online Dating.?

Tell me ladies, have you ever posted professional taken photos online, then meet with the guys only to find that they don’t like you anymore because you are not as made up or look exactly alike photos that have been taken less than a year ago…I just have…I asked the the second guy, “What I did wrong”, he says,”Nothing, I I was just expecting you to be different”.
I’m grateful they weren’t anyone I seriously liked, but they weren’t really cute, either but since we had good communication through phone/email then I would give them a chance and bypass their looks….I am self-conscience now, and I just want to hide. I can’t even raise my head and feel proud anymore.
Nonetheless, I figure I must really work on myself now physically, because I have couple of more dates, but I am so depressed, I couldn’t even get out of my chair at work…I just sort of hid and wiped my eyes…so do you feel me??

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To Every Opinionated Straight Person I’ve Ever Encountered In Real Life Or Online?

I’ve taken a lot of crap on this subject before but it’s just too annoying. Feel free to add more if you want.
We do not prostitute our bodies on the streets everyday.
We do not all say “Oh, and he/she did this and that in bed, and it was so romantic.
We do not all wear neon pink shirts and tight leather pants if we are boys.
We do not all have one-inch long hair and dress like men everyday if we are girls.
We do not all compare our struggles with the ones of black people, or people of any race, nor do we push our sexual orientation on straight people.
We do not go onto the singles and dating category and curse you all off and call you breeders and disgusting perverts. However, if you come into the gay and lesbian category and completely trash us, we’ll trash you right back.
We do not befriend you, and then when we find out you’re straight, completely trash your reputation and stop being friends with you.
We do not all rape you in jail cells.

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