I met this girl who’s friends with one of my friends, and I really like her. But I went on her facebook the other day, and there’s a lot of stuff suggesting that she’s lesbian, but I’m not sure.
There’s a lot of pictures of her with this one girl, and in a couple of them they are kissing. In one, the kiss is on the lips. Also, the girl she’s with a lot (maybe her gf, if she is lesbian) has a picture up of her dancing with some random other girl, and the description is “the night (name here) became lesbian”. There are also some wall posts where her possible gf refers to her as lover.
What are the chances that she’s really lesbian, and if she is, is there a chance that she’s just bi? She seems perfect for me, and I really like her already. How can I find out in a way that’s not awkward, and that makes it so i can try to go out on a date or something with her if she turns out to be straight or bi?
she’s on facebook right now, btw. anything i can do in terms of that, or should i just wait to find out in person or from one of her friends somehow? it would be awkward to just ask her about it online.
And NO it’s not me! I’m married. This woman is in the medical profession and makes great money. She’s interesting and fun. On the downside, she’s very tall and somewhat heavy. Yet certainly more attractive than many people out there who have found mates. She’s placed personal ads online and socializes frequently. What advice can I give her? This has been going on for 6 years! She means the world to me and I want her to be happy.
I’m 22 and I’m a lesbian. Eversince I was 19 I had my fisrt “real” gf, sadly she dumped me over somethin petty, since then I’ve not dated. I was talkin to this girl online but I quit talkin yto her cuz I figured she might dump me eventually. Do u think I shud just remain celibate. I love women so much and at this age people crave a loving relationship. I feel kinda hopeless heklp me out.
Okay so me and her have been friends for 2 years,
we met online, and eventually hung together,
we started really liking each other,
and kissed occasionally, and we got SO close to dating
but just recently
she cut a whole bunch of her hair off, and
started wearing alot darker clothess, and
Ive been talking with her, and she is telling me
that she is “basically” a lesbian..
we still ocasionally kiss, and she tells me
im cute, and i tell her how beautiful she is,
but Im not sure if shed date me or anything?
My best friend has been struggling a lot with her past over the last few years. Because of this, she’s really starting to try to discover herself. Last year, she started an online relationship with another girl, and when I finally found out about it, she said that the girl was hounding her and wouldn’t leave her alone. That it started out as a friendship, and the girl got the wrong idea. Later, she admitted that she was confused and wondering if she was maybe gay, but at that point she said she had figured it out. That she wasn’t.
So throughout all this, I’ve wondered if she was attracted to me. She gets jealous of my husband, and when we drink, we sometimes all take a lot of pictures of us out and about on the town. In the pictures, she is always looking at me with this loving look and sticking her tongue out-almost licking me, and clingy.
Recently she started dating a guy that she dated in high school. He’s a nice guy, but she is always complaining about him doing things wrong and not being attracted to him. But he is a great guy, and the things she complains about are mostly excuse after conjured excuse.
To top it all off, we are in a Christian group on campus, and although we are both very accepting and one of our good friends is gay, she would be very judged by many people in the Christian community. She struggles with right and wrong, and if she was a lesbian, she might be in denial because she is afraid it is wrong.
I think that she is attracted to me, and it makes me uncomfortable because I have asked her about it, and she denies it. We spend a lot of time together, and she always wants to be touching, to have some contact. I don’t know what to do, b/c it makes me so uncomfortable. If I knew for sure, I wouldn’t care. I love her and she is a great friend, but being unsure makes me feel like she is using our friendship to get something else for herself. What should I do? What do you think?
I’m still in highschool, and it seems taht every site is geared towards people 18 and up. I would really like to make some lesbian friends, i am one myself, and even thouhg i love my straight friends there are just somethings i don’t like to bother them with, even though i know they’ll listen. So i’m looking for someone or somewhere where i can find a pen pal, or just someone to talk to online, somthing for teens, with all sort of age groups. Nothing like myspace, but some group or somthing, kinda like a dating site, but where you don’t have to be 18.
Any ideas? I’ve tried Craig’s list and none of that has worked…
My best friend since I was nine asked me last year to be her bridesmaid for her upcoming June wedding. Let me tell you…I’ve been seeing a side of her that I’ve never seen. And let me mention that this is a $40,000 wedding in a castle. I’m serious. And everything will be perfect, down to the detail.
Also, allow me to mention that I am a lesbian and have been living wth my partner for the same amount of time as her and her fiance have been dating. I’m also a “curvy” woman. And she and her friends are sticks.
The first day she asked me to be her bridesmaid, she suggested that we sign up for the gym. And then, a few months later when it was time to get the dress, she said that the biggest they had was a 14 (I’m in a 20!!!) and then I said we’d have to figure something out, and then she said “well you have six months!” and…I sort of exploded. I mean, wouldn’t you? All she had to do was check online to see that they ran up to a size THIRTY!!! Or…hey…couldn’t she have had my size in mind when she picked the dress? But we’re…past that…
So, during all this, my girlfriend and I split up because she lied to me and made some bad decisions, and my friend was there with me through it all. But, when we got back together, she literally YELLED at me. Okay…I tolerated that. And then she said she wasn’t speaking to my gf anymore. humph. Fine.
So, she mentioned that she wanted a lingerea party. I booked the limo, asked her to pick a date, and got a list of her other friends from college…and called them. Then, suddently she didn’t care because she didn’t have time for that. Okay. I dealt with that and said nothing.
Now, two weeks ago, I got an invitation in the mail for the wedding. My partner (of four years, mind you) was not on the invitation (and from the fit that she threw about how she wasn’t invinting the boyfriends of her sorority sisters to her wedding because they change boyfriends every week and she’d never met them, I figured that meant she wasn’t invited.) Slightly pissed, but okay.
So I talked to my mother, who also got an invitation. Her invitation had my mom’s name, my dad’s name, and my sister’s name. She hasn’t seen my sister in YEARS. And I even told her not to bother inviting my sister because she wouldn’t come. Why WHY could she have not invited my WIFE (practically)?
I am pissed that I am putting all this unappreciated and EXPECTED effort into HER relationship and that she is dismissing mine.
I will put up with the fushia dress that nearly made me go negative in my account. I will put up with the two inch heels (which is tall when you don’t WEAR heels). I will put up with her suggesting that I am fat and need to loose weight to get into this dress. I will put up with walking down the aisle with a man at my arm and the stupid bridal party dance when I have to dance with this man while everyone else dances with whomever they brought. I will even put up with her excluding my girlfriend.
But HOW the hell am I supposed to find something NICE to say to this woman at the rehersal dinner when I have to give a speech? After 15 years of friendship, as much as it kills me to admit it, I ******* hate her. And after this wedding, I DONE.
Talk to me and make me feel better, please.
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