I don’t know what its like for straight people who try online dating. But i have found being a gay guy and looking for a decent guys has been quite difficult for me. To be honest most of the men on gay chat sites seem to be interested in mainly sex and that is just not me. Should i quit while i’m ahead.
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I am recently joined in a free dating site for BBW ====www.largeplace.com===. It’s really great. But I find that a member write in her profile that she has found her husband successfully there. She likes to keep her profile and enjoy the forum and blogs. The question is if it’s good to keep profile on online dating site after being married. You can join http://wwwsinglesnet.info What;’s the best place to go for a free dating web site online in the uk? Loopy love is pretty good but I don’t know many others that are free… well… hm i have a question a very hard one.. i met this guy 9 months ago on the paramore chat site. i wasnt even looking for anyone just chatting to a few people about teh band cause i love the band! and then i found out he was french and 18 and he was into all the bands i was into and he was really sweet im australian btw. but i had a boyfriend at the time. i would come home jump online and tell him everything about my day and about my life. and i told him about some things that arose in my mind about my 3 week boyf and how he didnt bother to pay for the first date etc and the french would say he was a jerk and how i derserve better but at that time we didnt have feeligns for eachother then he started to tell me about how he liked this girl at his school and told me all about her and i listened and gave him feedback told him to ask her out etc and then so he did they went out for a week i think lol but weird thing is we both broke up with our boyfriend/girlfriend on the same day! and we laughed about it together and there was this whole big argument with me and my mum and my ex and he calmed me down and helped me basically was there through like everything lol. i saw pictures of him too on myspace he is really cute and then one day we were talking and he confessed he had feelings for me i cant rememeber if i had feelings for him before he told me but i was like against long distance relationships and i knew of the dangers with internet and how you cant trust someone. but because i had seen pictures and talked to his friends online it felt ligit and he was a christian as well as me so i kinda think maybe God planned us to meet. then i said i liked him too. and then he was kinda taken aback by that and was surprised but happy and then we continued on talking just we ended it off with cute things etc and he was and still is my best friend I met this girl online, because she was going out with the same guy i was going out with. so to get him back for playing me we pretend to be lesbian lovers ( she’s a lesbian) so a few weeks later she tells me she loves me and i thought well it can’t hurt to try it. so we did. and i fell for her, i’ve tried to let her go once already and 7 months later i start talking to her again. and everything is as it was before back to the i love you’s and stuff. we’ve had problems because i messed aorund with this other girl (online only) and she’s been a thorn in our relationship. My gf actually dated her while i was gone. so its a weird love triangle. anyways were suppose to be back now. But what bugs me is that what i told her was true i do care and trust her like no other person. But i have never seen her not even in pictures, we don’t even talk on the phone just online. Yet i feel such a strong connection to her. I know her like no other person. I’m i crazy? So I met this “guy” online 6 years ago(when we were 14), We started talking things were great so we exchanged phone numbers. THe first time on the phone I thought he had a kinda girly voice, but hey he was young and maybe hadn’t gone through puberty. So we kept talking, Started falling for eachother, but things were weird because he never mentioned me to his family or friends. Then i found his brother on myspace 2 years ago (after 4 years of “dating”) and I find out that his brother didn’t have a brother, he only had a sister…that confused me, so I went on “his” msn and started talking to “his” friends and found out that HE was really a SHE who thought she was a guy…transgender type of thing (and we had already met in person and I couldn’t tell it was a girl) As soon as I found out she came here and for me things were really awkard, but her things were normal…now I don’t now what to do. I’ve seen her twice since I found out…and I really do love “him” but I don’t know if I can learn to love her? My parents are totally against the whole lesbian situation, and so was I…when I first had the hunch that HE was a SHE I felt sick to my stomach…and when I think about it I still do…but when I’m with this person I love being with them…I just hate when her parents call her by her name and any other time I’m reminded she’s really a girl…I need serious advice…It’s really messed up… |
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i tell him everything and what i go through he listens to my problems and basically says he would do everything to make me happy. I listen to him too he has some problems with his dad cause his dad is a alchoholic his parents are divorced the same as mine and we relate to a lot. And he told me he loved me a few months ago now me.. ive never been in love before but i have never felt this way about anyone before.its just confusing sometimes and hard because he lives so far away.And i have seen him on webcam in vice versa and i have like a commitment problem like i dont go from one guy to the next im just scared of falling in love i guess lol. cause my parents are divorced i have never seen a happy ending. And then i felt so scared but happy at the same time and then said i loved him too it was like being in some surreal dream. and then he was like ” wow serious? i mean wats happening? and im like huh? and hes liek are you for real do u actualy mean it/ and im like i wouldnt say it i didnt mean it. and hes like ohmygosh all my dreams are coming true. and then yeah so you get the point then we continued to talk etc but it kinda went down from there he keeps talking about marriage etc wen we havent even met yet! hes going to visit me next year 
and im going to vietnam for a month. theres a part of me that is unsure a part saying give up now and look at all the time you have wasted and i am preparing myself and trying to guard my heart for the future heartbreak but im not sure if it will be enough. even if i locked it away in a cage it would still ache. what do you think?