I am an Indian Christian girl and I was in love with an Indian Hindu Brahmin. I am an indian girl with lots of morals and respect to my culture.i used to love this guy from grade 9. he even came and said he love me and i was just being too shy and never replied to him even though i loved him. i took off to canada and never heard of him.3 years ago he emailed me asking how i am doing and stuff. i was really happy that he took lot of trouble emailing me.i accepted that i loved him in grade 9.we dated online for 2 years.last year he said he cant live without me and he has to see me in order to make thigns work because he dont believe in long distance.plus he said we fight a lot because its long distance. So I decided to take off to india on july 2008 i lied to my parents(which took me 6 months to convince them) lost $ 2000 for travelling, plus i went to india from work without pay.we had a good 11 days together. we did have some fights when i was there. its like he dont like me speaking english fluently,i am wearing modern dresses and that i am a chemical engineer. He himself is a masters degree holder in Electonics enginnering. he said after marriage i shouldnt work. i didnt like that choice of his that much. but i loved him so much i was willing to make that sacricifse. From the beginning he used to tell his parents wont agree to this and like he said he “said” he told his parents about me and they said they will commit suvicide if he marry me and thigns like that. so we broke up on November 2008. it wasn’t mutual. I was soo depressed and still I am because I loved him. Now through a friend’s forwaded email I heard he is getting married to a BDS doctor and he is taking initative to make her do masters and is letting her to work. I don’t know why he didn’t want me to work and now he changed his point of view about working. There are several thigns he asked me not to do after marriage which he had let this women do like wearning modern cloths,dancing,going to bar,doing higher studies.
I don’t get him. Please help me with what he might be upto. And what should I do in my future regarding this person? Should I contact him? I don’t know. I am confused.
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I have been talking online to a man I met a few months ago. I met him on a Christian online dating service and he is very respectful and believes in a courting relationship, rather than a typical dating relationship. So, he likes to take things slow. We both agreed that we really like each other and he even told me he wants to make a trip in the spring to meet me. The only thing is that we haven’t really talked regularly in the past few weeks because his mother is ill with a poor prognosis. Is it wrong for me to still talk with other people that have emailed me on the dating service, after he has expressed his desire to meet me? I really do like him and I hate to sound selfish (I know that he is busy with family matters) but how long do I wait for him to actually call me or take some time to chat online? Is that selfish of me considering his mother is ill? I sometimes feel a bit guilty about responding to other men’s requests to get to know me, but how long do I wait for him?! |
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