Been with my boyfriend for ten years. He has always acted like he has a severely low sex drive. The only time he touches me is when he is horny(about once a month). He doesn’t kiss or even look at me during sex. In ten years not one french kiss. Foreplay is “wanna go upstairs? “. In fact he doesn’t even know when he is “in” or doing my leg crease!
I am 102 lbs and 5 feet tall.
I’ve always enjoyed alot of attention from men before I was with him.
He is completely opposite to any man I’d ever had. He doesn’t pursue me, or even compliment me.
Recently I found alot of porn site entries on his computer. Over 100 videos at a click. And an ongoing secret from me.
When confronted. He first lies, then says this is a recent addiction for him. And he thinks I’m not being very understanding. But that he wishes I had not I found this. So he is not sorry for anything but getting caught.
One of the sites is called “Broadcast yourself” where you upload porn videos and share them with others. It is also a chat room dating site.
I don’t know how far he has gone. Or if he actually is sleeping with someone. I just know he has chosen computer sex, or sex with himself, over sex with me.
I’m devastated. We also are business partners for a web site where we sell handcrafted gift items that we make.
I have alot invested in life with him. I pretty much stand to lose everything if I leave.
But now I neither believe what he says as truth, or trust him .
Do I just revoke his privilages and rights to me as a girlfriend, and try to continue as partners in the business? Or should I not even
trust in any part of dealings with him, and start again alone?
Been with my boyfriend for ten years. He has always acted like he has a severely low sex drive. The only time he touches me is when he is horny(about once a month). He doesn’t kiss or even look at me during sex. In ten years not one french kiss. Foreplay is “wanna go upstairs? “. In fact he doesn’t even know when he is “in” or doing my leg crease!
I am 102 lbs and 5 feet tall.
I’ve always enjoyed alot of attention from men before I was with him.
He is completely opposite to any man I’d ever had. He doesn’t pursue me, or even compliment me.
Recently I found alot of porn site entries on his computer. Over 100 videos at a click. And an ongoing secret from me.
When confronted. He first lies, then says this is a recent addiction for him. And he thinks I’m not being very understanding. But that he wishes I had not I found this. So he is not sorry for anything but getting caught.
One of the sites is called “Broadcast yourself” where you upload porn videos and share them with others. It is also a chat room dating site.
I don’t know how far he has gone. Or if he actually is sleeping with someone. I just know he has chosen computer sex, or sex with himself, over sex with me.
I’m devastated. We also are business partners for a web site where we sell handcrafted gift items that we make.
I have alot invested in life with him. I pretty much stand to lose everything if I leave.
But now I neither believe what he says as truth, or trust him .
Do I just revoke his privilages and rights to me as a girlfriend, and try to continue as partners in the business? Or should I not even
trust in any part of dealings with him, and start again alone?
Been with my boyfriend for ten years. He has always acted like he has a severely low sex drive. The only time he touches me is when he is horny(about once a month). He doesn’t kiss or even look at me during sex. In ten years not one french kiss. Foreplay is “wanna go upstairs? “. In fact he doesn’t even know when he is “in” or doing my leg crease!
I am 102 lbs and 5 feet tall.
I’ve always enjoyed alot of attention from men before I was with him.
He is completely opposite to any man I’d ever had. He doesn’t pursue me, or even compliment me.
Recently I found alot of porn site entries on his computer. Over 100 videos at a click. And an ongoing secret from me.
When confronted. He first lies, then says this is a recent addiction for him. And he thinks I’m not being very understanding. But that he wishes I had not I found this. So he is not sorry for anything but getting caught.
One of the sites is called “Broadcast yourself” where you upload porn videos and share them with others. It is also a chat room dating site.
I don’t know how far he has gone. Or if he actually is sleeping with someone. I just know he has chosen computer sex, or sex with himself, over sex with me.
I’m devastated. We also are business partners for a web site where we sell handcrafted gift items that we make.
I have alot invested in life with him. I pretty much stand to lose everything if I leave.
But now I neither believe what he says as truth, or trust him .
Do I just revoke his privilages and rights to me as a girlfriend, and try to continue as partners in the business? Or should I not even
trust in any part of dealings with him, and start again alone?
I met my husband on a singles chat line. We dated for a year and a half and we have been married for 4 years now. Use all the precautions you would normally use when getting to know someone (meet in a public place the first few times you see each other, etc.). It also doesn’t hurt to conduct a criminal background search on someone that you are thinking about dating seriously, and they are relatively inexpensive. I am 52 and my husband is 49.
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There is a girl/young woman who goes to my church back home. Mind you, she is 6 years older than me (she’s 24 and I’m 18). I randomly started talking to her online one day and we both thought the other person was really cool. So we talked more and more, and eventually when summer came, she said hey, let’s hang out. So we hung out whenever she wasn’t working. I started thinking to myself, man, I wish she was my age, because she’s a really cool girl.
One day though, after going to the pool with her, we came back to her parent’s house, and somehow things led to sex. So, I lost my virginity to her. She had told me online before when we were discussing our problems, that once she got to college she started making mistakes sexually. So.. i felt bad for just adding on to her list of mistakes. I felt horrible for having sex too though.
Anywayy.. after sex, as would be expected, I fell for her. HARD. I started considering her as a girlfriend, and wanted to date her pretty badly. Only one problem. I knew she was 6 years older than me, and plus, she goes to a different college than me.
I talked to a really cool pastor here in my college town and he told me that sex ties an invisible string around two people’s hearts, and that I share with Lillian (the girl’s name, which is freaking awesome name too) is an unhealthy one. He suggested that we take a season off from each other. Not communicating, and getting our hearts in the right place and our minds cleared.
See, I completely agree with him, and I want to do this, but it’s almost impossible for me to. He’s right it is an unhealthy connection. My heart tells me that I love her, but my mind says I’m retarded. She goes to clubs, wears sexually appealing clothes, and is really attractive and gets hit on by a lot of guys. It’s not something I usually look for in a girl, and some of it is a turn off.
She’s Christian and wants to do things that are right, but she is REALLY naive, and it bothers me. But, because she’s naive, and I care for her, it really hurts me that I can’t be with her to watch out for her, and set her straight. I always tell her things, and she’s like wow, I never thought about it that way, or wow, I didn’t know that. She’s very naive, and it makes me care for her even when I don’t want to.
What the heck do I do? I’m sitting her hurting day after day. I hung out with her all day this past labor day weekend, we both came home from college to visit. We made out, hugged each other, and I cried, she cried because I was crying. She tells me that she wishes she had a boyfriend like me, and that she would wait even longer than she has been waiting for someone like me. She’s a sweet, caring, lovely girl, who has an innocent heart, she really does. But just not so aware of the things she’s doing. I wish I could not like her or stop thinking about her, but I absolutely, positively can’t.
It’s gotten to the point that when I try to hang out with girls in college, I feel uncomfortable, because I feel that I’m somewhat committed to Lillian? wtf, right?
Please help me.. I have a really soft heart.
on monday after school he came up to me and asked if i wanted too be his girlfriend ( we had been on a few dates) i told him i didnt want to bc i wasnt ready for a relashionship. then he just walked away. the next day i come to school and all these kids are looking at me like i have 5 heads. i go over to my friends and they tell me that this guy told people that i was a lesbian and had naked pic. of myself online. ( which i dont) but anyways what should i doooooooo!!??
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