I need some help here im from miami and the person that is chatting with me is from s.africa, we chat for hours over the internet most everyday for about 2 month already, but something im very not happy about is that she wont give me a call , every time i try to tell her to call me all she say is that her phone is broken or her phone is not working , so i tell her i want to be able to hear your voice if you want to start a relationship with me, she say soon don’t worry ,and im getting tired of it , I need to hear from her im tired of chatting man with her online, HOW DO I KNOW IF SHE A BOY OR GIRL, by just chatting with me online all the time? now she recently told she likes dogs or puppy as favorite pet, that if i can send her a puppy ? then she said i think the delivery for the dog will cost allot of money, why don’t u just send me the money and i will ge it here love if you want”. so that question got me thinking man allot! she let me see 2 pics of her on the internet so that can see how she looks and she really looks very pretty on the photos but ,im not really sure who im really chatting with online because she wont even give me a call.and i really would love date her, but my friends said be careful this days they got lots people who can play this game of love just for them to make a living “spamers,”hackers” and other type of online fraud”…. I want to know if i really can keep chatting with this lovely person or just stop it until i find who is that stranger behind the computer, please help what would you do in this type of thing becuase im totally thinking that she might be a guy or an online fraud person trying to do bad things after all, now im very scare because she got my miami adress where i live she ask me for it so when she comes she knows where to go to. is online dating good or bad . or did i just got ****** by some one i dont even knew.
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Ok, I’m a 21 yr old male in the army. I’ve been single for a long time now and it’s really getting old. Picking up the women isn’t the problem but the women I only run across are not exactly the “dating type”. I’m basically looking for a women who actually wants a relationship or is willing to consider one down the road and who supports the military. know there are a lot of online dating sites and have checked some of them out. Some of them look more like spam sites and some have outrageous prices. Im looking for a real dating site that actually works for cheap or free if there is one. Also I prefer not to pay with a credit card. I closed my credit card accounts because of the way the credit market is. I Pay with cash and check. He confessed his love to me profusely, but since we live far from each other (adjacent countries) he said he can’t handle the distance and he won’t be with another man so he wants us to be “special friends” (he defines that as doing everything lovers do but without calling it love) and he will look for a woman. I see him online in a gay dating site everyday, where is he gonna get a woman there? Hi, I’m a gay Asian male…and it seems impossible to find dates, mainly bc of my ethnicity. Look, I know that we are not considered the ideal, attractive partner, but I really wish a few good guys existed that could look beyond this one feature. Actually, a lot of people have told me that I am “cute” (of course they were probably lying), but still…it’s impossible. Even other Asian guys would never want to date me….they all automatically go for the White guys. Honestly, I’m afraid of ending up one of those lonely old men who never found love in life. The only guys who have ever expressed interest in me are 50 year old desperate men or guys that have some sort of perverted Asian fetish. It’s really depressing sometimes. I even tried online personals, but the vast majority automatically rule me out bc of my ethnicity. Their ethnic preferences are always white or hispanic. I’m thinking I should not be so proactive about dating anymore…just let it happen if it happens? Here’s my question. I’ve been kicking around on frees site for a while (I paid for Match, wound up with a con artist, thanks Match!!) and I haven’t had the most outstanding results. I don’t put my picture up, but I let them know it’s available. If any of you ladies have strategies that have worked for you, let me know. Bonus if you’re like me. Black. Hypereducated. Overbuilt. Somewhat snarky. I just turned 21 years old. And my date is 23. I met him online and after that we talked on the phone a lot for hours for about 3 nights. Then we finally went out together. It was a good date. We saw a movie and he started to cuddle with me. Before I knew it we were holding hands. He dropped me off. But before he did, he cuddled with me some more. Then he asked if he could kiss me. I said sure so we basically made out. I’ve heard stories of successful couples who started out online. If so, what free sites are available and what are good tips to start with? |
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