I have tried match.com which was OK. I’m looking to try again preferably from a different website. However, I am looking for something more long term rather than random hookups (i.e. craigslist.org). I am OK with paying some money as I think people on those sites are more serious about finding someone. I am not religious at all so no thanks to eharmony.com or jdate.com. If you have a suggestion, please let me know why you think it would work for me. I’m a 30 year old Chinese female professional who is conservative.
Ok, I met this girl a couple of months ago online, and we both came to the realization that we both really like each other. Our biggest problem is, we live on different sides of the country, literally. I am 16, and she is 15. We can’t very well get to either place very easily, and I would go visit her, by going on a plane, but I know my parents wouldn’t let me fly 4,000 miles away and stay in a hotel, and I’m pretty sure her parents wouldn’t let me go shack up with them for a week or 2. I am certain that I will find a way once I turn 18 to at least meet her, but until then, I am stuck. Does anybody have any advice as to resolve this?
Also, could you post your opinions on what you think of online relationships? I know someone is going to say “she” could very well be a 40 year old man, but I already know she isn’t. And please, don’t just put, “You freak you shouldn’t be dating online, just go out and meet a girl on your own turf!”
Uh… I know that this is very disorganized, and long, but I figured I would give a little of my predicament. I have never had a girlfriend, I have never really been out on a date. My parents are very overprotective, and I am sure would not “allow” me.
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So I am gay and I met a guy online and I am 20 ABOUT TO JUST TURN 21. Anyway I was looking for relationships near me I live in Montana. I found one guy about 2 months ago that really liked me and I like him he told me he was 18 and it showed 18 on his profile. HE LIVES 2 hours from me in a town called Kalispel and I have NEVER MET HIM YET. He khem! showed me a picture of him naked he kinda said he wanted sex quite plainly……anyway I told him I am looking for something long term and he told me that’s cool so was he actually and that he thought he thought I was really amazing–he seems like a sweetheart by the way. Anyway…….about 2 days ago he says hey I have to tell you something….and I “please don’t leave me or not talk to me just for this but, I am actually 17 I had to lie to get onto that dating web site” then he says I turn 18 in December (I don’t think he is lieing this time and some of his pics are TAKEN IN KALISPEL I KNOW THIS BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN THERE many times)………Well I didn’t know what to say or do I didn’t want to hurt his feelings and be like **** off you lied or something. In his pictures on myspace it’s hard to TELL exactly how old he is I would guess NO LESS than 17 he looks more like 18 to 19 but it’s hard to tell these days. He also has friends which have commented his pics on myspace and I have asked them if they have met him and they say YES. Anyway I don’t know what to do here….I don’t feel like I am a pedophile or something just because he is 17 and I am soon to be 21. That’s only years difference or actually 3.8 or something but it happens all the time. Is there something wrong with me? I don’t feel like I am doing anything wrong but am I being abnormal here? Anyway we don’t necessarily have to have sex anyway, but you never know how or when the government these days will start getting involved in your life. How do I know it’s not a government sting to try and get me in prison since he is 9 months from being 18? Better question yet I have tried to find the age of consent for Montana and it’s about impossible. Some sites say 16 is the age of consent, some say 18, and some say 16 for straight relations and 18 for gay ones. I looked up an actual consent law which is on the Montana governemnt web site and it’s written exactly copied in the link bellow. It basically says 16 is legal and anything bellow that there can only be 4 years ago difference. I also heard some place though that that bill only applies to straight relationships not gay ones and that gay ones both partners had to be 18……..I am so sad and confused about what to do here I fell for this guy who I thought I was 18..I feel like I am being tricked. He says he wants too meet me and that he would talk to me on the phone. He also gets upset when I talk to his friends…he tolds me he wants to keep this in the closet which I didn’t know but I told him I thought that was cool. Anyway what should I do I am crying and very sad scared and confused about the whole situation…should I meet him I mean what the hell do I do here???????????
http://www.ageofconsent.com/montana.htm
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Well here is my situation.. I feel like I’m caught in a little catch-22.
I had just recently gotten out of a 1 year relationship about 3 months ago. I’m still in love with the girl, I’ve tried a lot to patch things over, nearly everything.. but she insists that it’s over and there is nothing to work out. She started dating someone else a few weeks after me, I came to find out the new guy was one reason we had broken up.. She had been talking to him the last couple of months we were together behind my back. This really isn’t my problem though.. although I still have feelings for her I’m at terms to accepting it and am ready to move on. My previous girlfriends all share something in common, I have met them all through friends of friends, or I had worked with them. Which is kind of where I’m in a bind. The current place I work at, I don’t have any co-workers I’m interested in.. And most of my friends are also my ex-girlfriends friends. So naturally I haven’t been hanging out with most of them to avoid running into my ex; we also had a pretty bad breakup so it’s kind of awkward being around them. I have thought about going to bars, but I’m not much of a drinker. Likewise, I think its nearly impossible to meet “the love of your life” at a bar. Since I’m not much of a drinker, I don’t want to meet a girl that likes to drink.. I’ve thought about doing this “online dating” thing but it’s not really for me.. I’ve looked at Plentyoffish and Okcupid and again, it’s not really for me.. and I haven’t exactly found what I’m looking for. I’m a firm believer in that “You meet someone when your not looking for them”, but as of now I’ve been down in the dumps trying to get over my ex, and it’s pretty difficult being alone and not having someone else to preoccupy my time. I’m not the type of guy that HAS to constantly be in a relationship, but the companionship makes me feel a lot better then being alone all the time. So I guess my question is, what’s a good way to find someone who’s in the same boat as me? Again I’m not into the online dating scene.. some of the girls I have talked too seem to have some problems, that’s probably why the resorted to trying to date online.. And I don’t want to “fall in love” with someone at a bar..
I was just wondering if any busy professionals have ever met their significant others through online dating sites? In other words, does it work or have women had bad experiences through online dating (such as misrepresentation, men lying about their marital status, just a lot of one time only dates etc.)
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