Hi guys –
I have been out of the dating scene for a while due to a long relationship. Now, I’m back in and met this wonderful guy. He and I met in person (we’ve talked online for nearly 2 years) on Saturday night at a local nightclub. He acted very into me. He held my hand, danced with me, told me I was beautiful, and even kissed me. We were inseperable all night. At the end of the night he said he’d call me soon.
The next day he texts me and initiates conversation on MSN, the day after he messaged me on Facebook, and then yesterday he finally asked me to hang out again on Friday. Now, my question is… since I have been out of the dating scene for so long, how do I know what he’s after? I am hanging out with him in hopes of a relationship blossoming but I have no idea what his intentions are. Are there any signs you men give us women when you are really into us? Any other first date tips for me? I want to WOW him without messing this up!!!
Thanks a lot!
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I got out of a serious relationship a few months ago. I was madly in love & it ended suddenly and without warning as he was cheating. I’m coping and getting over it, but I had grown accustomed to having someone to come home to, snuggle with, & share stuff with. I miss it. I’m clearly not ready for anything serious right now but do like dating & getting that male attention. But at the same time, the situation with my ex has me kind of discouraged and put off by men as I thought I was going to marry this man and he turned out to be an a**hole. I’m considering checking out some online dating sites to help me get back in the game. But part of me thinks that’s just pathetic and for desperate people. Not to be conceited but I would consider myself a fairly attractive person inside and out (22, intelligent, 5’5″, 125lbs) & could go to the club & get some numbers but tired of that scene. Is online dating worth it or is it just desperate old guys looking to get lucky & what are good free sites? I’m new to the gay scene and I really want to start dating and also make new friends that are gay. Meeting people online just scares me and all of my friends are reserved and would probably never consider going to a gay bar or club with me. I’m, therefore, left with no option but to go to a gay club by myself. Thats why I wanted to know how everyones first club/bar/gay scene experience went? Plus, am I crazy to go by myself? Hey all. After being stuck on the biggest crush of my life for several years, I’ve decided to move along. Of course, being gay makes finding possible dates difficult. It doesn’t help that most of the people I’m around don’t know that I’m gay, and I’d like to keep it that way for the sake of sanity. I am. |
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