I went on a date with a guy that I’ve been talking to for maybe a few days before Christmas. The date went real well, we talked better than I thought since I’m normally real shy and quiet at first but I felt like I could act myself around him since we have a lot in common, but we saw a movie and after we didn’t talk much but we where both tired. I did make some mistakes like mentioning my ex since he had a necklace that my ex gave me from a festival, I didn’t want to say anything but I guess I made a face towards it and he asked what was wrong, I told him but changed the subject. I think the big one was when he got me home. He was taking his seat belt off and at the time I didn’t think he would want to walk me to the door, I just hugged him and said something like ‘we should hang out again’.
Was that really bad?
Since then he has been acting kind of off when I talk to him online, but just a few hours ago we talked real well again. I did ask him that I wanted to either hang out at my place or his place or just go out; he liked the idea but didn’t want to make plans yet because of his work. I live with my dad and it’s a somewhat small apartment, and he lives alone which I’m iffy with since we only had one date so far. We clicked better than I thought we would, but I have only been with one guy in the 23 years I’ve been alive and we dated almost 5 years, so this whole thing is still new to me so I am unsure what to do next to show him that I want to date him, but not act desperate.
So please help!
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alright me and this guy have been bffs since we met in second grade, and in 6th we dated for a few months and then i broke up with him, because i really didnt feel a connection. Then i moved away and we lost touch, finally aroundthe summer time last year we met online again (we DO kno eachother in real life) and around november we started going out again, only in january he broke up with me for “family issues” only to find out he was with another girl 3 weeks later. and the second time we went out i still didnt have any “deep” feelings for him, only like a brother. But one day i discovered i had feelings for him and i was gonna call him and tell him and he told me he got married (married at 15! its too young) i have never known him to lie o me so i beleive he is married. and i think im in love with him, but i dont want to ruin a 8 year friendship just because i got feelings for him now, in fact i loved him so much im thinking about going “full lesbian (im bi anyway)” Hi, |
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