Ok, heres the deal.
I’m brand new to online dating, and brand new to the bisexual scene. I met a gorgeous brunette through online “intimate” dating. We want to meet for coffee on monday, get to know each other a bit, but ultimately we want to wind up having sex. She has a steady boyfriend and has assured me that there will be no contact between me and her boyfriend but he wants to watch. This is fine by me, as we are all consenting adults. However, I do feel kind of weird having such casual sex even though its with another female. But on the other hand, I have had casual sex with other males in the past so..I’m really confused by all these mixed feelings.
How do you guys feel about a one night stand with the same-sex via online dating?
I know this may sound odd but I have had a couple of experiences lately with my parents which have led me to believe that A:their marriage and sex life is rather dysfunctional and B: that I should stay as far away as is possible from them. Firstly, when I have been speaking to my dad he has stared down at my chest periodically, intermittently but very blatantly and not in a fashion that can be construed as merely “thinking and mind elsewhere” (more wide eyed).
I have been in the kitchen with my Dad when my Mom walks in and I say to her “Oh, where did you get that jumper” and my Dad immediately looks up from what he is doing and by his expression and stare at my mother I apprehend that he is construing the incident in a sexual way as though “pornographic” and “lesbian” was my intention when making this comment..Later I came into the kitchen and my parents were at the dinner table and my Dad was stroking my mothers elbow (He is never affectionate with her and so adding two and two, I came to conclude I was right in my initial impression of the situation)
On a later date, I was in the kitchen with my parents when my Dad said something. I asked my Mom, “What did he just say?” and my Mom said in a sort of jokey way ” Kiss her..haw” ..while my Dad continued to read the paper..There is no other way to understand this situation other then my Mom was trying to turn my Dad on by feeding into his perverted fantasies which in any case shows my mother to lack a conscience. I am not close to my Dad and at the minute I do not speak to him, though I live with him. This really upsets me but my parents if confronted will “deny, deny, deny”…I know this was meant in a sexual way and my initial impression was confirmed when my mother made the “Kiss her” comment and it has stuck in my head and is messing me up quite a bit.
Furthermore, I know my Dad has been spying on my online activity (I don’t know how) as he makes comments which are very private and which he should not know about and which are entirely innapropriate to do to me as an adult woman. I have a BDSM Ageplay fetish and my Dad has started making comments to the effect (and only in the past 2 yrs since I discovered this), for example when collecting me from some place, “Daddy will come and get you so”..PERVERT FREAK!! Ageplay does not imply incest AT ALL….He has never spoken like this but he has now begun to..
When I was a little girl, I also felt I was exposed to things I should not have been. I slept in the same bedroom as my parents for about 11 years from birth and I started becoming aware around 8 or 9 about sex and these things. It made me feel so uncomfortable and worthless to sleep in the same bedroom as my parents as though I was the family dog without any feelings or real inner life. They didn’t consider that that might be traumatic to me to be around them like that. I went through periods I couldn’t sleep and was paranoid about any sexual activity that was happening in their bed. I once saw my Dads erection poking up from the sheets.
I also remember being in the garden when I was 5 or so with my parents and my mom was topless and I was giddy and laughing at her nipples (i had never seen such things before)..
I remember being in the shower with my mother and her placing the shower head down by my vagina and tickling this area with the water which I feel was innapropriate. When I told her one day that I wanted to start washing myself and I was getting older, she stubbornly and thoughtlessly ignored my request and kept washing me and particularly so in my more private areas and I felt violated at the time…
I have another memory of sitting on my Dads lap when I was 8 or 9 and I could feel his erection on the back of my knee. I didn’t know what that was but I could tell there was something very stiff prodding my knee. Nothing went further in these instances but they were scarring to me..
I was molested by my older brother when I was a child who bribed me with a pack of markers to stay quiet and repeatedly told me I was a “rat” when I was a little kid in order to keep me quiet and manipulate me into doing what he wanted me to do..
Can someone please tell me, If any of this was appropriate? It is difficult for me because they behave like normal people with the rest of the world but I feel anger resentment and hurt towards them..They pretend they did nothing wrong..
tell the true , To all more christian online[fallower of christ and JESUS[YAHSHUA]
HELP ME TO I no sin,when I go to club of sex,DO I MUST DO WHAT the club of sex do ,I wont to preach the gospel bring the sexual women or sexual young women to christ,but I know the sexual women or yang women have every thing exampel:house,food,close,car,every thing with is in house,JOB,help me to I know if I must to do this what the club of sex do ,To bring the sexscual women or yang women,bring to christ,I no wont to sin,I clean be I am christian,I do bible in action[PRACTIC]exampel preach the good news to people and fallow JESUS[YAHSHUA to you is JESUS,HELP ME,how give answer TO I PREACH THE GOSPEL TO CLUB OF SEX,to I no sin,I know what is in bible,HELP me,if you are real a christian[FALLOWER OF CHRIST and DOing the bible] ,DO I CAN DATE MANY YOUNG WOMEN or WOMEN,but no marry her,no children have with her,to no sin, answer this guesthing two, is importhing .
My bi cousin is 28 years old and she just left her marriage, for a 20 year lesbian. The girl moved all the way from Florida to live with my cousin. How can someone let there daughter move in with someone that met online. I feel like my cousin is taking care of this girl young girl who doesn’t work. SO MY QUESTION IS COULD A 20 YEAR OLD REALLY BE MATURE AND TAKE CARE OF A GROWN WOMEN AND HER TWO KIDS?
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Parents Who Make Sexual Comments Or Imply Sex In Interacting With 20 Yr Old Daughter?
I know this may sound odd but I have had a couple of experiences lately with my parents which have led me to believe that A:their marriage and sex life is rather dysfunctional and B: that I should stay as far away as is possible from them. Firstly, when I have been speaking to my dad he has stared down at my chest periodically, intermittently but very blatantly and not in a fashion that can be construed as merely “thinking and mind elsewhere” (more wide eyed).
I have been in the kitchen with my Dad when my Mom walks in and I say to her “Oh, where did you get that jumper” and my Dad immediately looks up from what he is doing and by his expression and stare at my mother I apprehend that he is construing the incident in a sexual way as though “pornographic” and “lesbian” was my intention when making this comment..Later I came into the kitchen and my parents were at the dinner table and my Dad was stroking my mothers elbow (He is never affectionate with her and so adding two and two, I came to conclude I was right in my initial impression of the situation)
On a later date, I was in the kitchen with my parents when my Dad said something. I asked my Mom, “What did he just say?” and my Mom said in a sort of jokey way ” Kiss her..haw” ..while my Dad continued to read the paper..There is no other way to understand this situation other then my Mom was trying to turn my Dad on by feeding into his perverted fantasies which in any case shows my mother to lack a conscience. I am not close to my Dad and at the minute I do not speak to him, though I live with him. This really upsets me but my parents if confronted will “deny, deny, deny”…I know this was meant in a sexual way and my initial impression was confirmed when my mother made the “Kiss her” comment and it has stuck in my head and is messing me up quite a bit.
Furthermore, I know my Dad has been spying on my online activity (I don’t know how) as he makes comments which are very private and which he should not know about and which are entirely innapropriate to do to me as an adult woman. I have a BDSM Ageplay fetish and my Dad has started making comments to the effect (and only in the past 2 yrs since I discovered this), for example when collecting me from some place, “Daddy will come and get you so”..PERVERT FREAK!! Ageplay does not imply incest AT ALL….He has never spoken like this but he has now begun to..
When I was a little girl, I also felt I was exposed to things I should not have been. I slept in the same bedroom as my parents for about 11 years from birth and I started becoming aware around 8 or 9 about sex and these things. It made me feel so uncomfortable and worthless to sleep in the same bedroom as my parents as though I was the family dog without any feelings or real inner life. They didn’t consider that that might be traumatic to me to be around them like that. I went through periods I couldn’t sleep and was paranoid about any sexual activity that was happening in their bed. I once saw my Dads erection poking up from the sheets.
I also remember being in the garden when I was 5 or so with my parents and my mom was topless and I was giddy and laughing at her nipples (i had never seen such things before)..
I remember being in the shower with my mother and her placing the shower head down by my vagina and tickling this area with the water which I feel was innapropriate. When I told her one day that I wanted to start washing myself and I was getting older, she stubbornly and thoughtlessly ignored my request and kept washing me and particularly so in my more private areas and I felt violated at the time…
I have another memory of sitting on my Dads lap when I was 8 or 9 and I could feel his erection on the back of my knee. I didn’t know what that was but I could tell there was something very stiff prodding my knee. Nothing went further in these instances but they were scarring to me..
I was molested by my older brother when I was a child who bribed me with a pack of markers to stay quiet and repeatedly told me I was a “rat” when I was a little kid in order to keep me quiet and manipulate me into doing what he wanted me to do..
Can someone please tell me, If any of this was appropriate? It is difficult for me because they behave like normal people with the rest of the world but I feel anger resentment and hurt towards them..They pretend they did nothing wrong..