Wat We Will Say In This Situation?

i see a girl on myspace i add her &she accepts ok
how can i have extremme beautiful conversation with a friend i never see ?
wat type of questions can i used to make her involed in it &exchanges conversation?
wat to aviod in the first coversation?
can we have gd relationship or be more than friends or it is difficuilt?
how to tell jokes across the net or in the coversation to girls or boys ?
wat things that girl love to be in the boys &wat stuffs that girls love to listen from boys
is the relationship across the net succed like the real life &wat about marriage on net ?can a girl from uk or watevra love a boy &this boy from egypt marry him or it is rare if yes how this could be they dont meet eachother ?
wat benefits did girls get from add boys far away
from them?
I WANT A GD SITE FOR TIPS ABOUT DATING&flirting online
HOW TO START A SMART COVERSATIONS WITH FEMALES U DONT SEE BEFORE?
i hope to read my question carefully & answer me with aperfect details

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How Can I Fix My Horrible Situation?

if you have seen my posts, you might think I’m bitter. I am. I need some serious help in my situation. I am just crying nearly every day about this, and I feel suicidal a lot. I feel so trapped and hopeless. My personality is changing while I am trapped and hopeless. Hell, I have been so angry that it makes me write angry rants on other web pages.
I am an attractive 24 year old male college graduate who ranks 9.5 on www.hotornot.com and I have a major problem. I currently live in a VERY SMALL TOWN and I’m trying extremely hard to leave to a bigger city, applying to 20 jobs a day usually. I get interviews, but I continue apply because I know that each interview I’m probably have a one in eight chance of landing that job.
I have been single since the end of college and I cannot find anybody new here for either dating or friends….and this problem is compounded with a bad economy that keeps me here even though I try real hard looking for a job. I heard that it takes the average professional 6 months to get a job after being laid off (I was laid off), in a GOOD economy….. and in a BAD economy it takes the average person about 12 months to 18 months to find another job. I work in computers which is all males.
While I’m here, the very limited amount of bars in this area mainly just have about 3 old men on average attending them. I nearly every day I go out looking for social establishments and I cannot find anything (I live in Upstate NY). On the weekdays, it seems like everything is empty.
I feel that the only way I can really start dating again is when I move, but the newly bad economy is making this so extremely hard with less jobs and more applicants of people who are laid off.
As a result, I feel like my youth is involuntary being wasted, and I am just continuing to get more older and unattractive and less marketable the more I age and continue to be stuck in a small town where I cannot meet anybody….DUE TO A BAD ECONOMY WHICH I CANNOT CONTROL. I am attractive, young (for now), and very good socially and with conversation who is knowledgeable, problem is that there’s just no people to talk to over here. The bad economy keeps me stuck.
While I never wanted to do online dating in the past, I checked it out only due to my circumstances here and sadly, I am just not attracted to all the girls on those sites. That doesn’t mean that I won’t be friends with anybody who might be considered unattractive, but since I’m hot, I prefer somebody equally attractive to myself for a partner/companion.
What should I do? I would love to not be angry and bitter and sad and suicidal anymore. I look so forward to living it up in a bigger city. I’m thinking the best thing I should do is to take ANY job in a bigger city, irregardless of my major, for my own happiness. PLEASE HELP :(

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Any Tips/advice On My Situation?

I have recently moved to a new area. I want to know how to go about meeting other gay men in this area. I have been one to go to sleazy clubs or pubs in the hope of picking up some random guy and I certainly am against one night stands and promiscuity. I just want to meet someone. I tried gaydar.co.uk and online dating sites but it hasn’t worked out for me. The last guy I spoke to was only interested in sex and two minutes into the conversation all I got was ”fancy it dude?” and he lives like 5 miles away from me. That’s not the sort of meeting up I had in mind. Also, I have only just come out and all this is new to me.
Any tips? Advice?

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Is Online Dating (match.com/eharmony/etc) Pathetic For Someone In My Situation?

So here’s my story. I’m 19 going on 20 and currently finishing my junior year in college. I’m quite sick of dead end college relationships.
For starters most people that go to my school live too far away from my hometown for anything serious to ever happen.
Secondly, all the girls are dead ends. Either you meet them somewhere and take them on a date which goes well (and yes…I know what a bad date is like) and then you follow up and they never return your call. Or relationships that just plain don’t last because it’s blatantly obvious they just want to screw around with other guys and they cover it up with the lame excuse “it’s not you, it’s me”.
I know for a fact it’s not an attraction issue. Not to toot my own horn, but many girls have told me I was hot/cute/etc and some have even approached me at parties and such. I just get so annoying when I see couple on campus and can’t figure out how the hell they can be so lucky.

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A Quicksand Situation Of Love?

I’ll try to write what’s important. March of 2006 I met a guy off www.myspace.com that seemed like awesome friend material. We started calling each other every day after work, because he didn’t have a cell at the time, we had these awesome conversations. I’m a christian, and he’s a pastor’s kid, we both believe in God through Christ as the only way so it worked out like that, and we couldn’t seem to get enough of each other. He lived about 300 miles away though, and here are the dirty details. My mom didn’t want me meeting anyone online ( I was 18 at the time, I’m almost 20 now), he was 27, he had a ‘past’, which began with some bad things that happened to him as a child, chosen drug abuse and promiscuity as he got older. He also went to prison 3 times. Our relationship was mostly fine, but he flirted a lot.. didnt seem to understand boundaries too well (for me, I am VERY fond of boundaries when I am dating someone exclusively). I also knew my boyfriend, CONT.

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I Really Need Help With This Situation I Am In?

I met this woman online at a christian dating site about a month or so ago, I think we hit it off, had a lot in common, and have talked to each other off and on by phone ever since. She is local, which makes it nice, and her schedule is very chaotic. I have yet to meet her, and I asked her to do something(whatever she wanted to do, so she is comfortable) and she said give me a few weeks) Prior to that question, I didn’t hear from her for about 6 days, she finally called and said the reason she didn’t call was because of her being busy, with schooling and a job. She cannot afford to mess up in school too much, or else she fails. My schedule isn’t all that bad, so I have time. Last week she called Thur. Fri. and Sun., and now I haven’t heard from her since then.
So, my question is: What is your taking on this situation? What are some things I can do?
All help and opinions are very much appreciated!

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