So on Saturday night i have a date with a guy i met online. I actually met him using yahoo answers. We have been talking on and off on AIM for a few months. During that time mentioned where he worked. He also gave me his myspace. He looks like a good guy. Well about 2 days ago our conversation -DRASTICALLY- picked up. We’ve been talking on the phone until the early mornings. And were meeting face to face for the first time saturday.
Now i know that it is always risky meeting people online. Well whenever i call him and he cant pick up it goes to his voicemail and he mentions where he works in his voice mail. I made him take a picture 2 days ago with the current date written in multicolors so i know that he matched the myspace pictures. Were going places really close to my house. I know every road were going to take and my friends will be texting me throughout the date to make sure nothing goes wrong.
Although im not out to my parents, so they think im going out with friends.
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I’m curious – thinking of trying it again, feeling a little lonely. Which dating sites worked for you? Any tips? folks, i’ve picked the wrong man twice in a row. i said no to marraige and got dumped. now alone with no family i sit. this time i will try a online dating service. i need tips on how you passed the time until the next love arrived in your life. you know what i have to do today? just this. it’s sad but true. i’m bathing in pity today. I’m meeting someone I met online for the first time next weekend. He lives in MS and I live in LA. He is traveling almost 3 hours to see me. I had planned for us to go to dinner at one of my favorite restaurants and then maybe see a movie on Friday night. My date, when recently discussing our plans, suggested some other things we could do on Saturday night and if he can get out of a commitment that he has on Sunday, then things we could do then too. Does he think he’s staying with me for the whole entire weekend? I have not offered him to stay at my house, and I certainly would not feel comfortable having someone I just met staying there anyways. I just don’t know how to approach this. He’s a nice enough guy, and although we have not been talking too long, we’ve really hit it off and have been talking on the phone every night since. We’re both still in college, so him staying in a hotel when he came down here could would be financially hard on him. I guess I just need to know how y’all would go about discussing this topic? I don’t mind him coming for the entire weekend but I don’t think he should stay with me. I talk to this amazing guy almost daily and he has the best sense of humor and he is so sweet but this still is online and I just got out of a relationship. It wouldn’t be like me to date someone that I met online but he is really extremley tempting. I have tried match.com which was OK. I’m looking to try again preferably from a different website. However, I am looking for something more long term rather than random hookups (i.e. craigslist.org). I am OK with paying some money as I think people on those sites are more serious about finding someone. I am not religious at all so no thanks to eharmony.com or jdate.com. If you have a suggestion, please let me know why you think it would work for me. I’m a 30 year old Chinese female professional who is conservative. I’m 28 (male) and have a profile setup with the online dating service – match.com. They have several methods of communication available. One is what’s called a “flirt” (otherwise known as a sort of an ice breaker). Basically, you send one to a person and hope they respond. There are quite a few different flirts available (by category of humor, serious, movies lines, etc.) So, yesterday (Saturday, 11/7) at about 1:30 pm, I found a girl (26 yrs. old) who I was interested in getting in touch with, and decided to send her one of these flirts. The one that I sent her read as, “It seems we have a lot in common. Let me know if you feel the same way”. (I felt we did, so I thought it would be reasonable to send). Long story short, about 35 minutes later she responded with, “Hey there, how’s it going?” I responded with, “Hi there, it’s going great! Are you having a good weekend so far?” Was this nosey, weird or perhaps just the wrong thing to say to someone you don’t know? I thought it was being thoughtful, but maybe it didn’t come off as such. Nonetheless, she never responded back and it’s apparently not because she’s busy. I happened to see her profile as being “online” while doing a regular profile search of women in my age range. Just want to know so that I avoid saying this in the future. Thanks! Continue reading Is This A Weird Or Wrong Question To Ask Someone Through An Online Dating Service? |
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