Should I go to a professional photographer or just get a friend to take my picture? I’m a transwoman – so I think there is an upside and downside to each approach. Professional pix – upside, it will look good / downside – the viewer will think that it is “doctored”. Picture done by a friend – upside – legitmate and not “doctored” / downside – not as good b/c of lighting, etc. Any experience/advice?
See, this is why my Grandmother said watch who you befriend online.
Right now I’m friends with one lesbian and one gay. Not like there is a problem with that. What I’m concerned about is that the lesbian I be friended is interested in dating…and I’m not even a lesbian. I don’t want to delete her from my friends list because she might think I don’t like her which I do but not like that…
What do you think? And another thing, why would she think I’m a lesbian in the first place?
So, I met a woman online. We are both lesbians. She is interested in making friends and taking a long time to see if there is anything there or not. I am interested in dating and a possible relationship but after making sure there is a solid freindship first. We’ve gone out. I really like her. The conversation is easy and flowing. She has fantastic eyes and an amazing smile. I’m not really sure though if she is into me or not.
We are going out of town in a couple weeks and there will be a night where we are staying in a hotel together but in separate beds. Anyone have ideas on how I can find out if she is interested in me?
Hi. I am a 14 year old boy. I don’t know where I’m going in life, either. I live in a town where people don’t realize the significance of life as I have opened my mind to see. I am not a selfish man at all. For years I’ve put others before myself and the ONLY thing I do for myself pretty much is masturbate. I have a masturbation problem. Well, not a problem. I know it’s not bad but I masturbate all the time. I question a lot about my life. Even right now I’m masturbating. Recently, I was talking to my friend on MySpace. Out of being too horny, I told her I was masturbating and said multiple things like “I’d *** on your face”. But afterwards, I felt horrible. I didn’t want to speak to her and still refuse to speak to her today. I have blocked all communication from her. I know it’s not her fault, but she’s not pretty and I don’t like her so I don’t know why I said it.
Moving along, I haven’t had a girlfriend in 6 years.My last girlfriend was Jacqui Gillardi and I love her still today. We had a perfect relationship and she even kissed me on the cheek. Then I heard she was moving to Tennessee and when seeking comfort, my friend Jillian asked me out. I said yes, unaware that Jacqui wasn’t moving until the day after… the last time I spoke to her was that same day and she was ripping up pages in her book with my name on them. I broke up with Jillian that same day as well. I’m not the best looking guy and most of the people at my school are snobs or have boyfriends. I don’t know what to do… I’m very romantic, very charming, and… I just want to make someone happy. Make it feel like I’ve changed someone’s life and that I can be their hero. I can be the person they feel protected at. I can be nice, sweet, romantic, charming, and even sexual because I know they like the naughtyness a bit hehe. But is something wrong with me? I haven’t even had my first kiss yet. I can be funny, but I also see the value in life. I’m still a virgin, and I want my first time to be when I’m married and I want that person to be a virgin too… commitment is a key thing I look for… I want someone beautiful too, because I mean, I know looks aren’t everything, but there IS a limit as to what people define as “looks”. I tried asking someone if they just wanted to hang out, go mini-golfing then to a movie, but they all say no, even when I offer to pay for everything. Am I just repulsive? People say “Just wait, you’re in the 8th grade going on 9th, you’ll find someone.” and I keep saying “I’ve waited 6 long years of pain and torture! Ever since that day my life has been going downhill, slowly enlarging the scar on my life! I know I have my entire life, but what about now?! Is there nothing that can heal the wound on my life if not completely shield it from more disease?”
I can be very sexual, actually… I go to many porn sites to masturbate. It’s the only way I have to get to sleep at night and to relieve stress. I’m not a strong person and I’m a little chubby, not overweight like most of America  . I online dated on Star Wars Galaxies for a few years and they all loved me, so why can’t I get a real one?? What do girls want me to act like? I try being myself but no one likes me for that. I am very philisophical and for some reason people don’t like that.
I like the feel of masturbating. It feels nice rubbing my hand up and down *******. But I don’t like being alone. I think I may be bi-curious because I often think, like right now, of being with my friend and us masturbating together. I think it’s like a mirror-effect to me more than being bi-curious but I’m not sure. Where am I going in life? I am so confused, I just want love in my life.
Ok, I’m getting more horny as I masturbate so I want to talk about it a little more to satisfy my urges
I remember years ago as a little kid I would go to my friend Macy’s house and hang out with her and her little sister Star. I would make ******* make a bump in my pants and they usually laughed because I guess it was funny at the time. But then I would show it to Star and she would show me her *****. We’d even pull down our pants and put a blanket over ourselves and sit down in the closet for no good reason. We were caught once but that’s all behind us. I barely see her anymore, due to school and such. I see Macy because she’s in my grade but still.
I like masturbating to Star Wars porn pictures, other cartoon porn pictures, lesbian, anime, and hentai.
So do I have a problem?
I met this woman about a month ago on a christian dating site, and we spoke on the net for a while, and then the phone the rest of the time. We were supposed to meet this past weekend, but due to her schedule, we didn’t. Now about a couple weeks ago, I didn’t hear from her for about a week, and she told me her schedule was hectic, meaning pretty much 7am to 2pm then 3pm to 11pm. I respect that, but just a minute ago, I noticed she was online and to my knowledge, she doesn’t have access to a cpu. So all of this doesn’t add up, what do you think is going on here? Am I getting the run around?
I don’t drink so I don’t do the bar scene….I am a christian and go to church but there aren’t many singles there…..where would you suggest the best place is to meet single CHRISTIAN men besides an online dating service?
There are no singles at church and the online dating thing is not working so far.
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