Am I Being Naive And Stupid?

i met a man online and i traveled twice to meet him. he is very sweet, very hot and he seems to be very trustful.i have all his family phone number and we talked very often. i love his mother ans she is a blessing heart. he is a christian and he goes to church weekly.
so, where is the catch? i wanna know!
he’s from africa and he lived in vietnam and now he is back to his country.he had many online affairs and when i found all this out and i talked to him, he promised to stop but he didn’t. i got him like 3 times more.btw, all from sites like paggi, tagged and bebo.
so, he gave me his password and i’m sure he has no other email. he comes online once a day for 1 hour. he has no connection at home.
he tattoo my name oh his arm, he talked about me with his father, he always says he loves me deeply and that i’m the woman of his life.
yesterday i asked a friend of us if my man had dated a girl when he was in vietnam. i asked directly by her name. our friend got embarrassing, saying he couldn’t say anything but i forced him and he said that my sweet man dated this girl “as long as he lived in vietnam”. i call my sweet man and he denied it completely saying they met, they went out about 4 times but just as friends and that he never had slept, kissed or dated her.
he is a very hot man, a writer, college degree and he swears on his mother that he loves and respect very much that he never had anything to her or any other girl in vietnam. he owns his company and everybody in his company knows about me.
please help me out. i’m so confused.
do i trust this man or not?

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My Husband Lives In The Past, Lies About Stupid Things And Can’t Be Real With Me! Help!?

First of all, I love my husband! We have been together for almost 5 years (off and on) and have been married for 6 months. During the 5 years we have been through much, from infidelity ( not on my part) and a lot of dishonesty. Together we have worked through much, or so I believed. I lost two children in a car accident, which he really never addresses and throws his going to their grave in my face. And then there are the finances, which his money is his, my money is ours.
Two years ago, I ended my relationship with his mother because I didn’t feel she was being honest with me and created her own version of situations, with her own spin once I ended our relationship! It’s not true, but as she almost destroyed her own relationship with her son, and they do not talk now, she had to put everything thing on me in an attempt to save her relationship with her son. She claims to be a devout Christian, but she is the most evil woman I know.
Last night, my husband brought up that whole situation again. It’s been two years and I truly don’t wish to discuss his mother! He had heard my side of the story so many times and honestly it is hurtful to me. I question why he keeps bringing it up, but I am to NEVER bring up his mistakes wherein he hurt me terribly!
There are times I find that my husband lies to me about stupid stuff. So I had him tracked by a private when I was out of town on business. He told me he was home but was tracke to his job. Why lie? I don’t care if he goes to work on a Saturday. Other than I’m told he is making calls from work and on the internet talking to women. (He met alot of women online before we met and cheated with some while we were dating). I am concerned. But my husband denies things even knowing he is caught. Then, he thinks he has a right to bring up the past like its acceptable.
Any suggestions??? I am at my witt’s end and I really think I need to end my marriage!

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Does Jesus Know Im Asking Stupid Question On Yahoo Answers?

If Jesus is all knowing, then he would know I’m wasting time right now by asking this stupid question right? Also would I be forgiven if I stopped asking stupid questions and started to ask more questions about football or how to start my own online christian dating service?

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