A while ago I was on EHarmony and I had a series of phone conversations with a girl who I had a good rapport with. I asked her out for coffee and she said yes, but I never heard back. I know this could be coincidence, as this happens all the time in online dating. But I have a feeling I made one fatal blunder, and I wanted to ask some young women if they would end a communication over this:
I am a shy and introverted type of person, and unfortunately in the last couple of years I have made some bad decisions leading to my being socially isolated in the last couple of years. In particular, I stupidly transferred out of a school where I had made friends (not the easiest task for me). When she asked me about my social life, I kind of sputtered and gave an answer about how I missed my friends from the old school, and I think I made it sound like I didn’t get out much. Be honest: if a guy on a dating site gave this type of answer, would you be like, “Yeah, just as I thought, guys on dating sites are losers with no life” or do you think it is more likely that there was no particular reason we lost touch? (Like maybe she decided she didn’t want a relationship at the moment.)
I’m trying to get inside the female mind, help would be appreciated! What would you think?
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I want a free dating site which is popular with Kenyan girls. I am 20 years. I like girls upto 22 and from 16. Someone tell me where I can find one online. Please, please, pliz. So, I met a woman online. We are both lesbians. She is interested in making friends and taking a long time to see if there is anything there or not. I am interested in dating and a possible relationship but after making sure there is a solid freindship first. We’ve gone out. I really like her. The conversation is easy and flowing. She has fantastic eyes and an amazing smile. I’m not really sure though if she is into me or not. I am a 21 yr old lesbian and I have been together with my girlfriend for 2 months. I have had bad relationships in the past and I know my girlfriend is aware of that. She also knows that I will not stay in a relationship if I am cheated on or abused. Well last week she was flirting with people online using a dating application on facebook. I questioned her about it, and she said it was no big deal, that I was overreacting, but she promised to not do it again. So all was good, but then last weekend, she decided to tell me about a month ago she was online flirting with her ex, and that she talks to her ex everyday. She also was going to hangout with her ex but decided not to, because she didn’t think it was a good idea. My girlfriend tells me that she loves me, and would never do anything to hurt me, but I am not sure whether or not I should trust her. I don’t know if I am just overreacting, because I get anxious really easily and I have been cheated on before. Should I trust her that she won’t go back to her ex or cheat on me? What should I do? I met this woman about a month ago on a christian dating site, and we spoke on the net for a while, and then the phone the rest of the time. We were supposed to meet this past weekend, but due to her schedule, we didn’t. Now about a couple weeks ago, I didn’t hear from her for about a week, and she told me her schedule was hectic, meaning pretty much 7am to 2pm then 3pm to 11pm. I respect that, but just a minute ago, I noticed she was online and to my knowledge, she doesn’t have access to a computer at work or school. So all of this doesn’t add up, what do you think is going on here? Am I getting the run around? |
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