On most of the online date sites – women in their 30′s and 40′s seem to always say they want to meet a guy their age or younger than them. Most guys want a woman younger than them. The math does not work. What ever happened to women going out with older guys (2-10 years older)??? I ask because all women on the web sites attracted to me are older than me and I have no interest in them!
It’s not fair, also it’s like saying that we have to pay in order to get a date or a girlfriend, it’s like online dating is like a prostitution service, and yet prostitution is illegal in the United States, that is kinda hypocritical. I am only registered with one online dating site, Plentyoffish, been using it since February, and I have not met anybody off of there yet, because the girls on there do not write back to me. So seriously, why do most online dating sites require a credit card or cash? why can’t they be 100 percent free? like not even a penny? It is very frustrating because I am not very outgoing, I am stuck at home all the time, not by choice though, it is because I have a hard time making new friends, like only one or 2 people call me, and they are sort of like me, they don’t know any other people they can introduce me to or set me up with, like I can’t meet new people through them, and we don’t fit in with the party scene, like we struggle to find parties and we are never invited to them. So it looks like the Internet is my only option, but seriously, why do we have to pay for online dating?
Ok, I’m a 21 yr old male in the army. I’ve been single for a long time now and it’s really getting old. Picking up the women isn’t the problem but the women I only run across are not exactly the “dating type”. I’m basically looking for a women who actually wants a relationship or is willing to consider one down the road and who supports the military. know there are a lot of online dating sites and have checked some of them out. Some of them look more like spam sites and some have outrageous prices. Im looking for a real dating site that actually works for cheap or free if there is one. Also I prefer not to pay with a credit card. I closed my credit card accounts because of the way the credit market is. I Pay with cash and check.
I’m 34 and have had a boyfriend for almost 8 years now. We are growing apart. Our relationship is very stressful. Since I was a teen, I’ve found myself attracted to women. I did “experiment” in college but didn’t date any women. If my bf and I split, I’d like to try dating a woman but I don’t know how to meet any! I really don’t want to go to a gay bar (I live an hour from Chicago) and just “hook up”. What are some other ways? I’m preety but I am feminine, would both “butch” and “girly” (I hope these terms are not offensive, if they are, please tell me the correct terms) women, possibly find me attractive? I’m also very shy at first around both women and men, is that a problem? I’d love to find a woman who loves animals just as much as I do and someone I can talk to about anything (this is not the case with any man I’ve ever dated). Please give me any advice you have! What about free dating services online, are there any good sites? Or is this a bad way to meet someone?
The reason I ask this, is because I went on this “date” with this girl. I drove about an hour north to go meet her. We had been talking online and things seemed to be going well. But when I met her, she seemed stand offish, and at the end of the night, there was this awkwardness about kissing her. I told her that I’m not really an aggressor type and that I don’t generally make a first move unless I know it’s ok. She said it was, so I kissed her.
But then she hasn’t spoken with me again. So I’m confused. She seemed to like me, and encouraged me to kiss her. But now? Nothing.
Do girls really expect us all to act like Shane off the L Word or something? And be all cocky and act like a player? Is this what girls really expect butches/FTM’s to be like? Because sorry, but if that’s the case, I’ll be highly disappointing. I abhor Shane’s character.
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