Wanting To Find A Reliable Source For Dating (free Source) For Inland Empire, Riverside!?

I was divorced in Aug. 2006 have a little boy share custody and I just simply want to get out there but I hate the games women play and have tried paid online dating services they have all fallen short…if someone can suggest very reliable paid sites I guess I’ll take those too. But there are about 6 paid sites I’ve tried I have a MySpace account if you’re interested in seeing what I look like! Ladies if you’re in the area and interested let me know and to all for suggestions thanks…
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Wanting To Become A Lesbian?

I have been with men most of my life, but have had an attraction to women as well since 12, though it has never gone much farther than kissing. I am at a point where I think I am done with men and want to go to women. But the best way I would know how to meet women is via online dating. Do you think that any ladies would want someone who is new to “this scene” and willing to be patient while I test the waters? Advice?