I Want To Know Whether There An Interracial Speed Dating Events Taking Place At All?

I noticed that slowly speed dating events are becoming more specific, for example, for Asians, Professionals, Jewish, Christians etc. However I’m still yet to find an interracial event, whether it be for BM who love WM or BW who love WM, vice versa. Can anyone prove me wrong and direct me somewhere. I’m not looking an online dating site.

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How Do I Know Whether I’m Bi Or Lez?

When I was younger, I used to have myself convinced I was straight, especially since I rarely liked women physically (though it did occur at times). However, due to my PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) and various problems at home, I rarely would date anyone in person, favoring online relationships because they lacked (at the beginning) all of the anxiety that in-person relationships have in their nature. As such, I never really had a chance to test my sexuality until recently.
I started dating this guy I was good friends with from California (I live in Texas) about 7 months ago, but I didn’t get a chance to see him until February of this year due to financial problems. Hanging out with him was a lot of fun, but I always felt almost….detached/awkward when trying to fool around at all or do anything intimate. I had the flu at the time (as did he xD), so I blamed it on that. But now he came to visit me for his Spring Break, and the feeling of detachment is still there. I can still have an amazing time going to different places to hang out with him, but we don’t know what to do because of my intimacy problem.
To make things worse, Ive liked my female best friend for a LONG time, only realizing it when I started missing her like crazy while I was at college. I have never been intimate with a girl, and so its hard for me to know whether or not I’m just awkward in general or if it’s just a thing with guys. I did defer the semester, and I got to hang out with both her and my bf at the same time yesterday, and my bf said that he noticed I was flirting a hell of a lot with her, more than with him <__<. I told her I liked her yesterday as well, which was hell @.@. But she took it really well, and I dunno what’s gonna happen, but that’s not really my question xD. I was just hoping that you might know what I was going through from experience :-/. I’m 20 btw.
Thank you :) .
Oh, and another conflicting issue here is whether or not I’m just in denial. My parents are VERY socially conservative, and I’m kinda worried about how my life will end up being if I do turn out actually being lesbian :( .

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Not Sure Whether To Trust Girlfriend.?

I am a 21 yr old lesbian and I have been together with my girlfriend for 2 months. I have had bad relationships in the past and I know my girlfriend is aware of that. She also knows that I will not stay in a relationship if I am cheated on or abused. Well last week she was flirting with people online using a dating application on facebook. I questioned her about it, and she said it was no big deal, that I was overreacting, but she promised to not do it again. So all was good, but then last weekend, she decided to tell me about a month ago she was online flirting with her ex, and that she talks to her ex everyday. She also was going to hangout with her ex but decided not to, because she didn’t think it was a good idea. My girlfriend tells me that she loves me, and would never do anything to hurt me, but I am not sure whether or not I should trust her. I don’t know if I am just overreacting, because I get anxious really easily and I have been cheated on before. Should I trust her that she won’t go back to her ex or cheat on me? What should I do?

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