hey yahooers i got a question for you all ok i am 20 years old and want to get into a relationship and i know there is plenty of fish in the sea but because of my past days in school (i was rejected a lot as a person) and my health problems. even girls i know i cant ask out because either they only want to be friends or they dont like my body
(im a little large, try taking special medicine for 19yrs and see how you look) so ill put it in simple terms i simply cant find one ive tried online dating but that doesnt work out very well any tips?
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Develop an exercise regimen that will get your body back in shape. Nothing is sexier than a guy who takes care of himself. Develop your sense of humor too. Be confident, without taking yourself too seriously or coming off as arrogant. Last but not least, dress clean and sharp. Not like a metrosexual, but take some pride in your appearance and yourself, and the enthusiasm will rub off on others.
Yeah, stop finding shallow girls… A nice person will like you for you. And if you don’t like someone being shallow you can’t be shallow either. I don’t discriminate based on looks, size, or anything like that.
To all of the people who told him to lose weight:
Can’t you read? Some medications save your life, but make you lose the ability to properly maintain your weight.
Stop being so shallow.
It’s hard to meet people when you are inbetween legal drinking age and high school. Just be patient the right person will come! And good luck!
Maybe because you were rejected a lot when you were younger, you might have a bit of a self-confience problem? Women are attracted to the person, the personality, the physical stuff is just frosting. Why don’t you try to meet women with similar intrests, join a club???
And another thing, sometimes friends can unexpectedly turn into something more…
Well for starters you have got to have confidence. You have to find a girl that you have chemistry with, a girl that likes what you like. I mean you don’t want to talk to a girl that you have nothing in common with you do? Even if she is really pretty, it won’t last. And if you’re looking online maybe you should try eharmony, or chemistry. Hope I’ve helped!! GOOD LUCK!!
maybe your standards are too high. do you want someone who loves everything about you because you’re insecure about yourself? or are looking for a pretty cute girl even though you are a bit large?
You’ll be okay, when you meet the right girl you’ll know it and she’ll love you just how you are.
you can change yourself if you want, but personally I think that you should wait and find a girl that likes you the way you are. Everything happens for a reason- i think, so if you just wait it out i think something will just happen naturally, Good Luck i hope that helped!
Ok, I’m not gonna lie, but 90% of these answers are cr@p. Be yourself? Give them gifts? No. Listen to me; I’ve had some similar problems over the years, but recently (a year ago) I found some amazing dating material and have transformed my life. NO JOKE. Look, if you want to ATTRACT women without flaunting your money or looking like Brad Pitt, shoot me an email, I would be more then happy to share some of my knowledge with you.
Otherwise, best of luck!
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Try making them your friends first…then get really close to her (not like close like together close) like friend relation close…then once your really close together ask her to a movie or something or eat out…then thats the time you ask her….it doesnt matter how good you look or how muscular u look what matters is your attitude and how u relate to her!!
so u can’t get laid cuz ur fat?
well my friend, 1st u need to loose the fat (rigerous excercise, good meal plan) this will take about a bear and is the only proven way to be healthy whilw loosing weight
then u need to work your natural charm. just b yourself and u will find someone
Hey friend I know exactly how you feel. As a 20year old I also had been rejected numerous times. Whilst at school I suffered with acne and have always been on the short side!! For year I thought that made me unnattractive and that I had little appeal to the opposite sex.
The good news is that’s all total CRAP!!
Women love guys who are Confident and Cheeky!!!
And don’t let anyone tell you any different.
Do a seach on the wives/girlfriends of comedians and then look at how damn attractive they are and you’ll see I’m right.
I’ve spent the last year dating some stunners and being spoilt for choice when it comes to women and I have a mate to thank for it all. He put me in touch with a course that’s run in England by a couple of dating guru’s and I can’t recommend it highly enough.
It’s here: http://www.tipsfordating.co.uk
My advice would be go check it out. They run some kind of newsletter which I think is free, but the course is quite amazing and has changed my life forever.
Good luck.
It will be easier for you to get a gf if you find someone like yourself. Thats the best tip I can give you. They’ll know what you are going thru, and they’ll appreciate you more for who you are… well, atleast more than the average girl could.
Try and be a friendly person. If you are obsessively looking you give off the vibe as being desperate, clingy, and needy. Women don’t want that. Have self-esteem and be happy with who you are.
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im sure the right girl will come along soon enough and will love you for you, i know that shes out there. you arent destined to be alone forever.
Just be yourself and patient. Also, you can broaden yourself to more people and stay confident to yourself and others
Don’t worry. You sound so sweet. When you meet the right girl, you will know what to do. Tips for now: BE YOURSELF. Girls love a genuine and sweet guy- no matter how they look.
get active!
haha
just saying wat they say in highschool.
and most of the time it works.
what it means is join something u might find the right fish.
=)
you can’t just find any girl to be your girlfriend, she suppose to be a special girl for you that u like, not just any girl u knw what am sayin
Go out top bars and clubs and things like that where u’ll be exposed to more new people.http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
It’s ok, I’m rejected as a person alot too. I find less rejection when I dress like a marmot or an emu. The fish outfit works great too (for attracting all those other fish in the sea, you know).
Well, i believe everyone has a special lover out there.
So wait it out, and be yourself.
I know girls like buff guys, go to the gym
looks do matter a little
drink green tea..it helps you lose weight
and find someone thats a little large also
it makes sense
not trying to be funny..im serious
What medicine would that be? Maintain fat? Go get ripped. Go to a gym. Get a botox or something.
be yourself and don’t worry about your weight…some girls actually like heavier set guys. just be yourself and girls like when you can make them laugh. good luck.
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i know its hard but u just have to have patience
theres someone out there for you
it helps to have confidence and to be happy with urself
just start talking to girls. get them to know them a little before movin in on them.
Stop trying and it will come.
get a better personality
Get a large black girlfriend
CRAZY IS FUNNY.=]
She will come one day when you least expect it
lose the cowboy hat
me neither
tried, but she had a boy friend
should of asked earlier
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