I’m not out yet, and the only way I know how to meet guys is through gay dating/hookup sites. I’ve talked to some guys who seem to have shown genuine interest at first (online)… but it seems like I always end up getting ignored or being forgotten in the end. All this letdown and I’m beginning to despair of ever finding a guy who’s into more than one night stands and shows a real interest in me… not even as a potential boyfriend but just as a person. I guess I’d just like to know if anyone else has had the same sort of experience and also if anyone might be able to suggest other (better) ways to meet guys that’d be practical for someone in my situation.
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One of the best places to meet guys is at a cafe or through school/work GSA associations. You’re more likely to find likeminded people in a bookstore and coffee shop that aren’t just after one thing. If you have any gay friends, you could try hanging out with their inner circle of gay friends, hoping to find someone that strikes an interest in you. It’s also important to remember that gay men are everywhere, so the potential that you’ll find your “dream man” outside of the internet is very plausible.
Always remember to tell a close friend or someone you trust whenever you’re meeting someone for the first time. People aren’t always what they seem to be on the internet, and that can lead to devastating consequences for you and your loved ones. If anyone or anything about someone makes you feel uncomfortable, walk away and move on to the countless other fish in the sea. Be safe and best of luck
whether you are gay or straight, online is never a good idea. and you need to come out before you get yourself involved with someone elses life. it’s only fair to them or to yourself. get a new set of friends. i know this is hard but work on it. at lease on or two gay friends. you don’y have to hook up. just be friends and then maybe they have a friend that you may like and so on.
most people gay or straight meet at:
work
shopping
the park
wine tastings
the beach
book stores
etc
there are lots of ways to meet someone, the internet is the worst way.
Here are some suggestions:
Book clubs
Pubs and clubs (usually not the best method)
Church
Gyms
Through friends (it never hurts to ask)
Phone Chat Lines