Comments on: What Should I Type If I C A Girl I’m Interested In On An Online Dating Site?

By: Captain

Captain — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 10:38:52 +0000

First of all, NEVER admit that “you’re new at dating.” No woman wants a dude fresh out of diapers. Your level of confidence in yourself has to be like a fellow who has the power to “make things happen” for his life, OK? Second, make sure you have the spell check feature on. You just told her that she could massage you back. That looks like you’re wanting her to “massage your back…” and “write” is supposed to be “right.” Im sure that spelling ought to be something that should be not that important, but remember… you’re chosing to date or at least communicate ONLINE, where folks have to rely upon your texts and messages to kind of learn what type of person you are.
Finally, you said you can talk to women who are co-workers and friends, then I suggest you try to communicate with these online dating women in the same way!! The one thing that drives women crazy is a guy who doesn’t fall all over himself trying to “pick her up.” She will eventually notice that you havent really tried any serious flirting or pick up lines, and she will eventually “lead the way” for you… I know, because I did that once. There was a fellow who was quite a gentleman, and eventually he tempted me to be the fresh one, first! LOL! When she does initiate the flirts, respond with equal interest, Romeo! LOL! Good luck, you’ll be just fine.

By: Richi

Richi — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 05:11:13 +0000

cyberdating is not good…..

By: rddragxg

rddragxg — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 01:28:03 +0000

well try talking about something she is interested in. Ask her what kind of music she likes and try to relate. ask her what she does in spare time.
im not sure if i could give u a good starting msg tho

By: MistyJ

MistyJ — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 20:26:44 +0000

that message was ok. if i was sending a message id say something like “hey, my name is ……. and i noticed we have a lot in common. it would be really nice to get to know you, you seem like a really nice person. hope you get back to me.” or at least maybe something like that. and look at her picture and pick out some things and add in some compliments about her in the email.