Please don’t say online dating because its a total disaster – been there and met the nutters! I am a professional and outgoing person with everything going for them but i just cant ever meet decent girls. They’re always either with someone or just not my type at all. What’s a good way to meet new people?
The best way to meet “nice” people is through work or friends. If you’ve exhausted those options, join a volunteer organization or something similar in your area. Volunteer at a local school as a tutor, etc.
do a night class in some thing your interested in, and you’ll meet some one who you know will at least have one thing in common with you.
Pick up a hobby in an area where there might be socializing with the “type” of woman you are interested in meeting. You’ll have something in common to talk about off the bat. I’m guessing bars and such are out. And church or other places are usually not much better for meeting a “decent” girl. Maybe take a college course to further yourself in your career. You might find other professionals with similar interests.
My advice, try to get a girl or meet a girl that meets your standers, a girl that likes the same things that you do. And if you see a woman and you wanna ask her something, try asking “hello, how are you” the 1st responds saids it all =)
i have that problem with lads!! okay whats the best way to meet a decent lad? lol and to your question..i dont know hmm its hard..i never seem to find any cute and nice lads…though i did meet one other week wont see him again though..and how old are you? could say join a club..or go clubbing..or just go shoppin loadsa girls shop lol =]
Join a church that has social gatherings. Ask a married woman to introduce you to her friends. Take some classes. You will be surrounded by interested women if you take a dance class or a cooking class. Let your friends know that you are looking for someone nice. Everyone knows a nice single girl they would like to “fix up.”
good question, the truth is most of the girls you will meet at the bars, are also at the church, but the best way to look at it, is how you meet and where, the same person but better circumstances.
dont be shy,chat to ladies who you think are fit….whats the worst that could happen ?
Why meet a decent one? Us indecent ones r far more fun!!
I’m in the same sad situation. I have met some amazing people online though, maybe you should give it another try.
If not, then try and meet people through a hobby. For example, I met one man through an RPG club.
Maybe I should try a chess club next, that’d be interesting to say the least.
Promise me one thing though – never lower your standards. It can get lonely and depressing but why should you settle for anything less than your ideal?
in the job, or if you know her family
i think the second is best
At church or sounds crazy but at a grocery store?
You could even meet each other thru mutual friends.
Build a space ship…….
Church or charity events
stay away from clubs
Decent girls are easy to find…humble family background wins.
I am looking to meet a decent guy…I experience the same problem…where do you meet them?
You definitely won’t find a good girl at a night club so stay away from places like that. What are your hobbies, if it’s to do with lots of people then try looking there.
don’t give up! I am also looking for a nice girl. I just turned 23 but I have attracted enough pretty girls but I am just too shy
Even had one of the prettiest mormon girls fall in love with me saying to a friend I was the only guy she liked in university and how she tried to hint me and was disappointed that i was not in her classes the following year. but i was too shy:( I am looking for a nice girl who can take me out of my comfort zone and be both a best friend and a romantic partner. Someone to talk to about anything and vice versa. Churches are a great idea, but i am too shy to even step there