I’m a 33-year-old, straight(heterosexual) male who is single, without children; and attempting/trying to: “ ‘find’/‘look’/‘seek’. . . attract a ‘mate’; a peer-aged woman; for mutual love or the experience of casual ‘dating’ ”.
I’m a member on the following Internet ‘chat’/blogs Personalized Web-page websites such as:
*. MySpace.com
*. FaceBook.com
*. YouTube.com
*. LifeKnot.com
I’m also a member on the following f r e e Internet ‘dating’ websites:
*. PlentyOfFish.com
*. Mingle2.com
*. DateHookUp.com
*. CraigsList.org
Lastly, I’m a member(subscribed/paid); with membership totaling at l e a s t $500.00 monthly; on the following Internet ‘date’-matching websites:
“Speed ‘Dating’ ” websites:
1. HurryDate.com
2. 8MinuteDate.com
3. PreDating.com
“Matching/ ‘Date’ websites:
1. eHarmony.com
2. Match.com
3. Yahoo.com
4. True.com
5. Chemistry.com
6. FriendFinder.com
7. BigChurch.com
8. Passion.com
9. Fling.com
10. CollegeDateLink.com
11. Cupid.com
12. LoveAccess.com
13. AdultFriendFinder.com
I have placed/posted friendly photo(s) of myself in my personal ad/profile, which is completely filled-out, on each of the websites mentioned above. After reading each match’s personal ad/profile, I write and send a different email to each peer-aged match(the woman or women) to initiate contact with her.
However, I constantly experience that the ‘matched’ person(s)– the peer-aged woman/women; regardless of race/ethnicity, regardless of her photo(s) or the lacking a photo of herself on her personal ad/profile; do selectively eliminate me; for example: they do n o t reply to any of my email(s) I sent. As a result, any and all these women selectively eliminate me as potentially being either her platonic friend or her amorous/romantic partner; based upon h e r preference selection of “Her Ideal Person’s” traits section in h e r personal ad/profile as follows:
1) Height [ “Her ‘Partner’ m u s t” be at least 6feet 6inches tall],
2) Race/Ethnicity [skin-complexion/skin-tone],
3) ‘Body type’ [ “Her ‘Partner’ m u s t ” be either: muscular, toned, athletic, or slim]; and
4) Income/Occupation [ “Her ‘Partner’ m u s t ” earn/make an income of at least $50,000 annually]
Q u e s t i o n s:
A. What is this with the Internet/Online ‘Dating’-match website ‘trend’ or ‘craze’/‘fad’: a “Popularity Contest”. . ., the “Flauntiest Tease” . . .; or, a “Flirtiest b u t Fickleness/Finickiest” c o n t e s t from both men and especially women? ? ?
B. Where are the r e a l Women; n o t the Woman who are fake/’flakes’; n o t those who are: teasers of written/worded Personal Ads/Profiles with eye-catching-candy photos, and etcetera? ? ?
C. What’s going on with people(whether male or female) about the: “Woman seeks Man” and/or “Man seeks Woman” section(s); of the Internet ‘Dating’/Matching, the Internet Personal Ads/Profiles craze/fad ‘thing’? ? ?
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I can tell you from experience that it doesn’t matter which site you choose or how much you pay, you’ll still have problems connecting to women without meeting them in person. I joined a group called Perfect Match a few years back and they made it sound so simple- taking a video of me answering different questions. But the women I met were mostly not my “perfect match” and some of them didn’t even come close. So I decided it’s better to try to meet women thru your social network of real people. Otherwise you’ll spend a lot of time and still may not find someone who’s interested or willing to take a chance. Women are probably very cautious about meeting men thru these sites, so who knows what’s going thru their minds.
you’re not getting responses because you’re saying the exact same boring things every other guy is saying to her. in some cases, the girls profile is fake which happens everywhere so there’s nothing you can do about it. but in most cases when her profile is real you have to think about how many dozens of emails she is probably getting everyday. probably 95% of all the guys who email her are saying boring, predictable things that shes heard a thousand times, like stating your height, weight, hobbies, favorite foods, favorite places to go, etc.
instead try being actually different and interesting by showing you’re a funny, challenging, and high status guy who can make her laugh and feel sexually attracted to you whenever she is around you. if you dont know where to start try getting some david deangelo cd’s particularly his online dating program and you can see for yourself.
if you dont believe me i just recently contacted a girl through yahoo personals who responded back saying that she pretty much gave up the online dating thing because of all the pathetic guys out there who emailed her constantly saying the same boring things over and over and how she never responds to any of them but said she couldn’t resist responding back to me because i made her laugh so hard she almost peed her pants. and on top of that, i didnt meet her qualifications of her “ideal man” either but that doesnt matter at all, man- you just dont stand out from the rest thats all.
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