I talk to this amazing guy almost daily and he has the best sense of humor and he is so sweet but this still is online and I just got out of a relationship. It wouldn’t be like me to date someone that I met online but he is really extremley tempting.
Okay then not really dating exactly but is it stupid to want to want to meet him IRL?
How can you make sure it’s going to be safe, what are some tips? I totally trust him but in a way I don’t want to be that trusting, I just don’t know what to do!! I really want to meet him and see if anythings there for us.
Well yes, I would and I have. You have to be safe and screen them pretty well though. It helps to make a list of all the “black flags” (things you absolutely will NOT tolerate in a partner) and weed them out like that. I’m a very difficult person to get along with, so that was made easy for me.
It’s not stupid to want to meet in person. If you don’t have the chemistry in person, it’s never going to work. Just don’t get all “I love you” over the phone or in chat. I’ve got stories about a friend who did that for a year with this guy… they finally met in person and he was not at all what she wanted.
I think you should just meet somewhere public and make sure he’s not old. I’ve met this guy who I met online (but my friend knew him from her old school and I didn’t) and he was legit… but that’s a messy story and he still likes his ex blah blah hahaha, but go for it
Yea i would (if the guys THAT interesting lol)
meet in public place & bring someone along
or at least tell someone where you guys going to meet up?
best of luck xx
Is he married?? I mean do you really know?
Perhaps meet him in a safe environment?
How bout meeting him with one of ur friends? that would be good