I’m new to the gay scene and I really want to start dating and also make new friends that are gay. Meeting people online just scares me and all of my friends are reserved and would probably never consider going to a gay bar or club with me. I’m, therefore, left with no option but to go to a gay club by myself. Thats why I wanted to know how everyones first club/bar/gay scene experience went? Plus, am I crazy to go by myself?
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Alex H November 14th, 2009 at 8:14 pm
No, you aren’t crazy for wanting to go by yourself.
My first experience was actually with friends and I had a WONDERFUL time. That led to me wanting to go by myself so eventually I did.
It was a nightclub with a dance floor and when I went by myself, I just danced by myself all night long. After that I got picked up by my first boyfriend and my first sexual experience. So I had a great time on both occasions.
Of course this was in the 80s so some things have changed. I don’t see why your friends won’t go with you. But you should go and just have a good time. Here’s a little advice:
1. Don’t get too drunk (if you drink)
2. Don’t put your drink down and leave it unattended (someone might slip you a roofie which is the date-rape-drug)
3. Smile and don’t be looking like a sour-puss
4. Have a good time and that way you can enjoy the night even if you don’t meet anyone
5. Don’t drink and drive
6. If you have a bad feeling about someone, DON’T go home with them
Have fun, Sweetie.
☆you ♥ me☆ November 14th, 2009 at 8:14 pm
Mine was horrible. lol My first time ever in a lesbian bar and I got hit on by a dude as soon as I walked in!
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†Angel Fxxk† November 14th, 2009 at 8:14 pm
Personally i had a great time.
I went with a couple of my favorite *** hags (i say that lovingly)
I got hit on by a couple older men which i found a bit creepy since i wasn’t used to it but other than that i made some friends (that i still have today) and never had to buy a drink for myself. =]
I hope you have fun and no you aren’t crazy..just braver than i was. =P